can they?? like everytime??? there's nooo way they won't kno
even if u dont scream?? and i kno this must sound super niave/awk but pop ur cherry?? so everyone bleeds the 1st time?????
2007-04-22 12:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by alana s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what if she's used a tampon before does that mean she won't bleed??
2007-04-22 13:02:03 · update #1
Not everybody bleeds the first time and even if the girl does it might be for another reason. If you were going to have your first time with a guy I would tell him. It can hurt you a lot and he needs to know so he can be more careful!!!
2007-04-22 12:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by binemaeuschen22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a girl can tell you they are a virgin and really not be amoung other lies such as "don't worry baby, I'm on the pill"
next thing you know she gets pregnant.
Physically speaking a girl can be a virgin without a hymen to break and bleed. Some girls have had some injuries and are still a virgin..some on a bike, some on a bathtub slip and fall, ect.
Virgins typically do not have experience and proceed ackwardly and with hesitation(nervous/scared). If things proceed too fast you can bet she was lying to you.
2007-04-22 20:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by TY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone bleeds their first time, but a lot do... and you'll probably be in pain, which will show (whether you want it to or not), so some guys might pick up on that. And if the guy has had sex before, and you're just laying there not knowing what to do, that's a good indicator. You should just stop talking to these guys and grow up a little before you do something you regret.
2007-04-22 19:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way to know unless she tells you..not everyone bleeds the first time and girls who have had sx before can still have pain or even bleed. Hopefully the girl will be honest with you about what is really going on with her.
2007-04-22 19:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by silverstar7337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody "bleeds" the first time, because normally, in this day and age, girls "help themselves" and break their hymen (the part that bleeds) all on their own. If you REALLY want to know, and you care about the person, just ask. If they're not willing to be completely honest with you, and you're taking your relationship to that level, it's not going anywhere good.
2007-04-22 19:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 100% way. You can lose your hymen (thing that makes you bleed) a million ways (horseback riding, masterbation, gymnastics). Even then the guys penis may be too small to reach the hymen.
Lets just say the seal doesnt always show that the product hasnt been tampered with if u get my drift ^_^
2007-04-22 19:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i've been told that not every girl bleeds the first time! as for the screaming.. lol almost every girl does that.. but if a guy pays attention.. you can tell if a girl doesn't know what she's doing.. well... then you have those one girls that have been with people and still don't know what to do.. lol that's because she either not open to learn.. or the guys ever told her what they liked
2007-04-22 19:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by tonguering180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way a guy can tell if your not a virgin unless you are pregnant or already have a child. Even your behavior during sex is not an indicator of experience. No, not everyone bleeds their first time. (I didn't)
2007-04-22 19:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin isn't having the hymen broken, because it might already be broken from doing sports. So a guy can't really tell if a girl's a virgin, but he can just ask her.
2007-04-22 19:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Not every girl bleeds either, you just have to trust she is telling the truth.
2007-04-22 19:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋