Ok - So i've liked my personal trainer for a while - and he asked me to go to a concert with him the other night.
We got into the concert and it was dark and I though that he was going to make his move, but nothing happened.
I really enjoyed the concert and would like to get to know him better. Also throughout our conversation he mentioned money alot - about how much he earns etc... what does this mean?
At the end I mentioned that we should do it again sometime and he said sure.
BASICALLY.
1. I keep getting mixed signals from the guy - one minute he seems into me and next we're just friends. Why would a guy give mixed signals?
2.Why did he invite me to the concert if he is not interested?
3.The other thing to consider is that I am his client and am 6 years younger than he is (He's 29 i'm 23) - Could this be a turn off for him? How can I let him know that none of that means anything to me?
4. I'm seeing him tomorrow for training - what should I do?
2007-04-22 12:33:29 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah_Silverstone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your new at this arnt you :). The only reason I can think of for a guy to mention how much he earnt is to show off. He seems to be interested but wants to know that you are. Did you give him any indication (besides accepting the invitation) that you are interested in him.
Age after 20's and so on isnt too bad, it doesnt feel like your being lured to the car with candy :P. His mixed signals is either him playing games, or his uncertenty of your feelings. I say make em known.
I think you already know this, but its normally unethical to date clients, and it may complicate things on the training side. But if you think it could work screw the rules :) good luck
2007-04-22 12:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you would like to date him and are willing to get a different trainer if that's a problem with ethics. ask him to a concert-with a specific date. or to coffee. if he seems hesitant, it's probably because he didn't like you that much and doesnt' want to date more. based on the scenario you describe "sure' doesn't sound liek he really wants to date you more.
2007-04-22 19:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't question him at all. You might be mistaking his kindness as a come-on. A lot of people do that mistakenly. Just go with the flow and see where things take you two.
I wish you luck sweety.
2007-04-22 19:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋