How to change my attitude in front of my parents/?

Question

Something has gotten into me. I don't know what i mean i get money every month and i wasnt allowed to go to a friends house as much now like every saturday i go to my friends house. and when i can't go i cry..I don't know why..and my parents hate it..

And when my parents talk to me and they repeat what they are saying more then twice i scream and say WHAT! ..I hate it and when they get mad..i go to my room and i get emotional..And to my brother he is being mean to me so im mean back and he says to change my attitude

I really want to change but i don't know how..i've tried before and it didn't work..so what do i do i want to talk really nicely to my parents and not get mad when i cant go somewhere

im going to try to be grateful now..

I thank all of yall that answered this question and weren't mean!

im also 13

Answer 1

I suspect you are going through a lot of changes in your life. It is part of growing up. Your parents love you and they expect a certain amount of discord. Hang it there. Try to do better. In a few years, you will all look back and laugh.

Answer 2

You are so ahead of everyone else your age since you have acknowledged the problem which is probably hormones and you are hoping to solve it. Can you tell your parents just what you wrote here. Can you ask them to help you do time outs or deep breaths or do some exercising when this is about to occur? Try those solutions along with maybe other changes in your schedule, get lots of sleep and nutritiion. I know that your parents will want to help and it isnt a weakness to admit you are having this problem. All teenagers do in one way or another. You are superior to most who think the whole rest of the world is wrong whereas you are trying to solve this. Good for you

Answer 3

Attitudes arent developed overnight nor can you change them overnight. Attitudes take time to change and redevelop so be patient andwork on it so you can regain the trust of others in that you have become a changed person. Dont hurry it as it wont work but take it one day at a time and be willing to readjust anything that isnt working and someday you will becom that person you want to be. Good luck

Answer 4

What you need is a way to control your emotions so you have time to think before you react. Try counting to a hundred before you talk. Then think what you would say to you, for your behavior, if you were in your parents position. I think you would say your sorry and end the problem before it got blown out of proportion.

Answer 5

The only person who can change that is you. You need to realize what your problems are...then try to pull yourself together the next time you are having prroblems....You should be grateful that you get any money from your parents...I don't get a dime

Answer 6

#1 when you feel it happening start paying all your attention to your breathing. very important. focus on your breath. don't even try to listen to the parents. just keep freely breathing. it's ok to be emotional, just concentrate on breathing.

#2 when you have gone calmly breathing to your room, close your eyes and pay attention to how it feels inside your body when you can't do what you want. just really acknowledge the feelings.

#3 you can tell your parents later how you felt, as long as you aren't making demands or criticizing them. "when i couldn't go to cindy's i felt disappointed an sad"

Answer 7

you are experiencing teenage hormones
which means u are now officially behaving like a teenager
but thing will change because u have realized where u are going wrong
try and try harder and u will be able to change your attitude

Answer 8

Think of a happy place.

Answer 9

well how old are you well put it like this smy mom would'nt let me go any where and i turn out fine

Answer 10

Try pulling your head out of your @ss and being grateful that you even have parents.