am i crazy???????

Question

my parents think im crazy. i cut myslef b/c i wasent thinking
i been thinking of sucide b/c i cant choose over my love or my family it diffcult b/c i love both and either way i go i hurt someone os i just want everyone to be happy

Answer 1

A Cry for Help
- Soon--A World Without Despair!
http://watchtower.org/e/20000915/article_01.htm

Why Do I Hurt Myself?
- A Diverse Profile
- “A Mechanism to Cope With Stress”
http://www.watchtower.org/e/200601a/article_01.htm

How Can I Stop Hurting Myself?
- The Value of Confiding
- The Importance of Prayer
- Helping A Self-Injurer
- When Additional Assistance Is Needed
- Two Things to Think About
http://watchtower.org/e/200602a/article_01.htm

Youths---Let Your Parents Help You Guard Your Heart!
- Why Obey Your Parents?
- Attraction to the Opposite Sex
- The Persuasive Power of Your Peers
- Worthy of Honor
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2004/10/15/article_01.htm

How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
- A Note to Parents http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm

You need to quit trying to please everyone else,
and focus on helping yourself. When I put God's actual teachings in His Word first in my life, I had hope that takes me through any tough time that comes up. The religion I'd been raised in wasn't teaching God's thoughts, so I searched until I found one that teaches them 100%. Knowing what His will is gives real meaning to life...
http://watchtower.org/e/pr/article_01.htm

Answer 2

You are not crazy. I do think a professional could help you put things in a different perspective and challenge some of your thinking patterns, as well as teach you better and more effective ways to cope with your feelings. Chosing is hard, but death is forever, so don't make a permanent solution over a temporary problem, no matter how big the problem. No one will be happy with you dead, believe me. You have more options than one side or the other. I do not know your age, but I do trust your parents probably make their decisions out of love and caring for you. I am sure they want you to be happy. They have a lot of experience, so maybe they have a point that you are not hearing. Please go see a counselor and let them help you sort through this. Sometimes when we are upset it is better to let an objective person give us a hand. That doesn't mean you are crazy. It means you are human.

Answer 3

Whoa, first you need to take a step back from this situation and then you need to take a deep breath. What makes you think you cant have both your love and your family? Women and men alike have been balancing the two for centuries, so there's no reason you cant do it as well. Your making this a bigger problem then what it really is. Do your parents approve of your love? Its okay if they dont, your still young, there's plenty more fish in the sea. Dont claim that he/she's going to be your one and only love, because that may not be the case several years down the road. Life's just too uncertain for that.
We all have had suicidal thoughts, but if your thinking of acting on them, thats the time to get help.
I understand you dont want to hurt anyone and you want everyone to be happy, but dont you want to be happy too? If your not happy, thats going to make everyone around you miserable. Nobody likes to be miserable. :) Good luck!

Answer 4

you're not crazy you're human! Its a part of life that you can never, ever please everyone and part of adulthood is making difficult choices. Only you can make those choices but don't commit suicide over it. No matter how bad things are your life will get better and this situation will pass. Just press on and take one day at a time. If you cut yourself a lot get help if you've done it once don't do it again. Just be strong and find someone you can confide in about all these confused emotions. if you don't have anyone get a journal and when you feel like cutting or going crazy write it down in a journal it will help. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 5

Youre not crazy! But just know that cutting your self or thinking of suicide is not the answer to your problems. Both will not help you. It sounds like you have a chocie to make. Have you tried talking to your parents about your love? I know its hard and they wont always understand, but you must make them understand that youre hurting inside and you really need them to accept this person you love. Also if you cant get help from your family, try talking to some one. I understand how you feel really. Life is hard,but believe me sucide or cutting yourself will only make things worst. It wont make the pain go away. Fight for your love and your sanity.

Answer 6

You're not crazy, but I think you are obviously depressed.

I can't tell exactly what your situation is, but it is obvious that you are hurting. We all go through times where we have rough decisions to made, and sometimes, it seems like there is no way out, but please believe me, there is.

Don't cut yourself. The scabs and scars end up being reminders of what went wrong and they make you more depressed. It is not a good way to channel your pain.

Don't kill yourself, either. It may seem like there is no way out, but believe me, there always is. Part of healing is accepting new solutions and changes. Sometimes we think that we'd rather die than have something change, but trust me, the change is always better. If you die, your love AND your family will be distraught. It won't make everyone happy. Everyone you love will be miserable, and just because you won't be there to see it does not mean that it won't happen.

Answer 7

Hello sexi...you are not crazy....but maybe you suffer from a mental illness. You should seek professional help to get diagnosed and treated. Cutting yourself is not a good thing to do. By going to a psychiatrist you can get a lot of things -off your chest- and figure out what in the past is affecting you know. Suicidal thoughts are symptoms of different mental illnesses such as depression and bipolar disorder. There are meds which diminish these symptoms. Get yourself checked! [e-mail]

Answer 8

No, you're just confused. Get some help to help sort things out. Start with your guidance counselor or school nurse. Or, ask your parents to take you to a counselor who specializes in working with your age group. Trying to please everyone is one way to make yourself unhappy, but the counselor can help you set your priorities and be more objective than your parents or bf. Good luck.

Answer 9

No affense but it sounds like a little bit of mellow drama, dont worry your not crazy, just in love

Answer 10

You're not crazy honey. You can't make everyone happy. It is impossible. If you really love everyone involved, PLEASE don't even think of suicide. My best friend's son shot himself in September. She (his mom) will never recover. I've lost her just the same as if he took her with him.