Well.....we are in a relationship and its going good.I wanna say that I love him,but my mouth won't say it!I'll say if we r on the phone,I loooooo......gotta go!by.and hang up the phone.what can i do??
2007-04-22 09:46:10 · 16 answers · asked by --------------------------- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is.....I think and try to say it but it doesnt come out and i know he loves me,,,,,,,HE'S TOLD ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
2007-04-22 09:51:32 · update #1
it sounds life you're afraid to commit/take the next step. just hang out with him more and get to know him better. if you get to know him as a friend and you really like him you might just fall in love with him. if you only want to be friends, then gently tell him. it's not fair to keep him in a relationship when your heart's not in it. hopefully he'll take it well and respect you for your decision.
2007-04-22 09:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by jana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all want to be in love and to be loved. If he loves you but you are not emotionally there yet. Dont feel obligated to say the love word unless it from the heart/mind like you said u want to BUT your mouth cant. Meaning subconsiously you are not in love as of right now. Dont worry your not a weird but you cannot obligate yourself to say such words. Your heart and mind battle alot but when they agree with something you will know, Right now they are in tormoil with LOVE. You heart is easily mislead and your mind is more stable. Dont let one rule over the other they supposed to balance each other out.Just wait if he care he will wait. It will come naturally
2007-04-22 17:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should'nt force yourself to say you love him if you aren't ready. Love is a very strong emotion and feeling. It's better to be honest about than to hurt his feelings, you know? Don't worry, the right time will come for you to tell him.
2007-04-22 16:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say what you feel. I don't understand how people can be in a relationship and not love each other.
2007-04-22 16:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nervous, obviously. If it's the first time you're saying it to him, say it to his face, not on the phone. Take a deep breath and say it.
2007-04-22 16:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything. You obviously don't love him. You obviously like him a lot but you don't love him. If he says he loves you just say, I really really like you to. If he is one of those obsessed guys who are like "do you love me, do you love me" just say your not ready to say that yet becuase you don't mean it and you don't want to hurt him. You don't love him so don't try to push those 3 words. They are special.
2007-04-22 16:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by icky_mic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not ready to say it yet. Give it some time and I'm sure that you'll be able to say it soon.
2007-04-22 16:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ur heart tryin 2 tell u somfin? if not, tape the phone around ur head, and force urself 2 say it lol! be confident! u can do it!
2007-04-22 16:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your own heart and how you really feel is it worth telling him you love him? ask yourself first why are you afraid and be honest with yourself. Know your why first then you will know why it is hard to say you love him to his face.
2007-04-22 16:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying i love you for the first time is speciall dont get so choked up about it. just get the courage and get it done.
then when you talk saying i love you will be easy. if you
dont feel it dont say it.
2007-04-22 16:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋