2007-04-22 07:45:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Poor girl...I'm trying to think of a way to illustrate why you're mistaken. It seems that appearance and looks and all that is the end-all and be-all of relationship. But that's actually the shallowest part of a healthy relationship. Look at all the couples who are happily married for years, appearance isn't what solid relationships are based upon. I'm guessing you're quite young, and boys your age are generally shallow, so if you're not attracting shallow guys, well, that's no big loss, now is it?
2007-04-22 07:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate...that looks are what most people judge first. What you may define as pretty is different to another.
As corny as it sounds beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
You must first be confident in who you are. Everyone is different, the adjectives can range from plain, gorgeous, pretty, hot, average, plump, fat, slim, skinny........whatever. How you see yourself is what others will also see.
If you are secure and confident in who you are, looks don't matter. Have you ever seen a big person with a skinny person, how about a short person with a tall person, an older adult with a younger adult?.....somehow, someway, these people were attracted to each other....some might think WTF, how did that happen....
It all depends on the prespectives of the people involved. I don't know how old you are but IF you are in jr/high school....life is definately NOT school....don't think you have to have a boyfriend to be complete. School is a harsh place when it comes to peer pressure. When the time is right, it will happen.
Know who you are first.
"I have to know me, before I can know we."
2007-04-22 15:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that most people .. girls think that physical beauty is important and yah .. some people seem to think that way but oyu need to choose where you want your friendships to go -- Boy or Girl -- friends.
And yes its an easy cop out to say oo im jsut not good looking or pretty enough to go out with someone. You are the ultimate choice maker in any relationship. Don't think that you have to put the choice off on someone else. The sooner you realize that YOU are the one in control of your life the better off you will be!
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2007-04-22 14:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by daperdad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of ugly people out there that have boyfriends. alot of the tie its not what is on the outside but whats in the heart that gets the man. If you feel you arent pretty enough to get a man then you can always go after an ugly one
2007-04-22 14:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Adam S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are not always looking for pretty girl. Some boys like girls that have a nice personality. Personality is more important than looks. Most pretty girls have ugly personalities and boys get turned off from them really fast.
2007-04-22 14:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not about being pretty or ugly. One of the prettiest women i know cant hold on to a man to save her life, cuz she a head case. But then one of the most unattractive women i know (at 3 on a good day on a scale of 1-10) has a husband who is a 9 on his worst day. Just be yourself, be confident and carry yourself like your the finest woman to walk this earth.
2007-04-22 14:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be pretty! what are you saying only the rare beautiful person has boyfriends or is married? no of course not! its harder when your a teenager because theres so much pressure tp be pretty but theres no need to be. if you try to not be yourself then the person who gos out with you wont be going out with the real you. be yourself and stay the same, the right person is out there!
2007-04-22 14:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by klbblk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pretty? i think that's out of the context of getting a boyfriend, unless the guy you plan to snag is all about how you look and not about who you are. you don't have to be pretty, you just have to be as you are. all you have to do is look the way you want to look. stay clean, keep clean, and be focused with what you like doing best. someone's bound to notice you.
2007-04-22 14:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by cartoonfreak25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys shouldnt just like girls because they are pretty. some of them actually dont. the key thing is confidence. say if you are just average, not pretty, not ugly then you should accentuate your good stuff. you know only put on make up that makes you look better. soft subtle shades are perfect. like a bit of eyeliner and mascara to make your eyes pop. and cover up maybe and a tad of lip gloss. it makes you look more than average. but if a guy doesnt like you b/c he thinks you are ugly, then he is not worth it.
2007-04-22 14:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by brunet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend the on the person you're interested in. You have guys who are into different things. Some like the girl next door look, some like the super model hot type. Then you have guys who are into the "different" things.
2007-04-22 14:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋