And we go to different schools and i still want to be friends with her and she said we could talk whenever. She broke up with me yesterday when should i cal lher or text her. I still want to be friends with her?
2007-04-22 03:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her talk to you. If you call or text her, then you're letting her know that she still has a power over you. But it's best if you just moved on.
2007-04-22 04:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. I know it sounds completely cliché, but it really is true. Because she broke up with you, it's not a good idea to call her, not for a while, or at least until she starts talking to you. I understand you still want to be friends with her, but she also needs to get over this, which just takes time. She needs time to heal, so just respect that for now. I know it may seem like she's not hurting because she broke up with you, but I'm sure she is, especially if you had a really deep relationship.
For you, you need to just take time by yourself to mull over what happened; to wallow. After you feel you've done that all you can, just hang out with your friends and family a lot, do anything you can to get her off your mind. When you're doing things you like with people you like, you're more likely to heal faster.
2007-04-22 11:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to miss you. Don't act like you care whether you talk to her or not. Wait at least 5 days before you call, unless the break up was your fault. If you are at fault, call sooner and let her know you feel bad about what you have done.
For now, find something to do. The less time you have on your hands, the less you'll think about her.
2007-04-22 11:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry if you did not realize it, but she was just trying to be nice. She really wants her space.
Do not call her, do not text her. You need to move on.
By remaining friends, she means if you see her in the street, it is OK to say "Hi", but keep walking - you know what I mean.
There are many of available, beautiful , intelligent young ladies out there - and at least twenty out there waiting for you. Your job is to find the one that will make you happy and that will appreciate you for who you are and the one that you want to make happy and can appreciate her for who she is.
Move on.
2007-04-22 11:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by 2Cute2B4Got 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that.only time will heal your broken heart. in the meanwhile, hang with your friends & have some fun...you might even meet another nice person whom u can talk to, but do not rush into another relationship!
it's nice if u & ur ex can remain friends, just wait about a week or so & then u can text/ call & ask how she's doing.
2007-04-22 11:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things between the two of you were serious to you, so i would say give yourself time to separate your friendship from the relationship you had. give her a couple of days to get her head together while you do the same, facebook her or myspace her or whatever, let her know that (if you do) you still feel that you two can make your friendship work. however, if youre going to just be friends you have to respect her desire to just be friends, though that will be hard, your friendship will last longer and be stronger in the end. :)
feel free to email me. =)
2007-04-22 11:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to get back with your girlfriend then yes try ringing or texting her tell her how you feel, if she is still not intrested in you then so be it , let her be , then take the bull by the horns , pick yourself back up dust yourself down . get out there and get yourself a whole new life , You never know what awaits you .
Good Luck
2007-04-22 11:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call u are gonna seem desperate and then at the same time push her away. You should let her come to you and when she does call dont dwell on your relationship. Talk to her like you would a girl who is your friend. It may suck at first but just let things ease on in instead of pushing. Good Luck....
2007-04-22 11:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by ask n ye shall recieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say find another gf. U can still have friendly relations with the old one, but I wouldn't try to get her back as a gf.
And as soon as u find another gf, u will get over this old one quick.
2007-04-22 11:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, why she broke up with you?
Try having a conversation with her about it. Ask if she is aware that you have feelings for her still although you want to be her friend?
2007-04-22 11:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋