im 18, and i've been goin out with this guy for 2 yrs. we havent had sex as i told him that im not ready yet...the truth is i have tubular breasts and im too embarassed about it!!! he thnks that they r normal size and keeps on talkin about how he'd like to touch them! i donno what to do! helpppp!!
2007-04-22 03:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine_009 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been going out with you for 2 years and has respected your wish for no sex so far..This guy likes you for the right reasons otherwise he`d be gone already! He will like everything about you including your breasts because they are 'yours' and they define who you are. When you are ready and only when, tell him about the worries you have about sharing your body with him for the first time (don't talk about your breasts specifically) and he`s gonna make everything all right. I know sweetie because I have many scars on my stomach from multiple operations and I have the same anxiety as you and each time I was proved wrong to worry.
2007-04-22 03:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At age 18, you really should just allow yourself the freedom of not facing this issue right now. Without knowing his age, it's hard to tell what his reaction might be.
Bottom line: Give yourself 3 years to let your body fully develop into an adult. You will have a much better perspective and outlook about your body, and also give yourself the opportunity to mature emotionally.
If bf doesn't want to wait, he ain't made for you.
Good Luck
2007-04-22 03:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
are you kidding? most guys would give a left nut to have be with a girl with tubular breasts you are one of a very select few lucky women who have them belive me he wont object if anything he will jump up and do a snoopy dance with joy :)>
2007-04-22 03:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just sit him down and talk to him, explain why you are self conscious about them you may have to show pics if you don't want to show your own. Inform him is all you can do.
2007-04-22 03:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by kc 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's time you let him touch them.
if he has been with you two years he isn't going to leave because of your breasts.
2007-04-22 03:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are 18... dont you know sooner or later you will be married to a man someday.. so whats the difference?
2007-04-22 03:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok , the thing is he going to find out ,in the end,.. but i think you scared he going to leave you ,when he find out,.. now do you want to, keep the thing from him, an lose him,,, tell him,
2007-04-22 03:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS NOT LIMITED TO THE BODY...IF IT IS ITS CALLED LUST...MAKE SURE U R INVOLVED WITH HIM FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.IF HE UNACCEPTS UR PHYSICAL STATE HE DOES NOT DESERVE U...
2007-04-22 03:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him
if he really love u he will not keep about this
2007-04-22 03:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what are tubular breasts?
2007-04-22 03:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋