hi.. i want to have a simple wedding( just close famiely & friends) but the problem is i dont know anything about WDDINGS!! im a rock&roll girl.. im not into thease things.. i want ideas (music.. etc) ?? if its up to me i would play kiss:) but that is not appropriate:( but i alos want something fits my personality.. HELP!!
2007-04-22 02:44:09 · 15 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am getting married this fall...me and my fiance are HUGE pink floyd fans...(our first date was a pink floyd concert! Awsome!) anyway I will be walking down the aisle to the acoustic version of wish you were here....In other words Do what you want! It doesn't have to be the classic fairy tale wedding...if you arent Cinderella! Do what fits you...who cares what every one else thinks its you and your fiances day...no one elses! Iits your day to remember!
2007-04-22 06:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by cerks_wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think I can help you, I planned my wedding for about 110 people. I planned it entirely on my own. Their are alot of details, but just take it step by step and buy a binder to keep track of each hired help. Even for a simple wedding you need to be organized.
Tip: When you are hiring any professionals for your wedding DJ, florist, reception area etc. always call and or interview and get estimates(maybe three or four). Make sure you tell them what you want, how about a simple small wedding maybe with a rock and roll edge. Remember, your hiring them, be in control and express your personality to make them understand what you are like.
Music: I think music is important. It's your wedding, why can't you have a little rock and roll. When you talk to the DJ (Im assuming your having a dj rather than a band) express to them you want a mixture of music. Think of the guests that are attending your wedding, what kind of music will suit their interests as well as yours. One thing that was important to me was that my guests were having a good time. You can have a rock and roll themed wedding and make it perfectly respectable! A touch of rock and roll, thats all, perfect.
Florist: Remember you want simple, express that to the florist.What about a color theme. They will probably ask you your theme, maybe you can say a touch of rock and roll. What colors will suit a rock and roll theme. The florist will coordinate the flowers and decorations in those colors.
Reception Area: If your not getting married in a church you can certainly plan the ceremony in the reception area and then immediately have the reception, that will save some costs. Remember to call a few reception halls or banquets centers and get estimates. Alot of places will send you information on their services, and then you can narrow it down to three or so. You can then make an appointment to visit them and make your final decision. The place I decided on had someone through the entire wedding to guide us through each step, first dance,tossing of bouquet,cutting of cake,but I'm sure all the facilities have that so don't worry. That remindes me, the place I chose supplied the cake,and the dinner. Some are banquet halls and you have to find the caterer and the bakery. I chose a beautiful colonial restaurant that had the whole package, a beautiful room, dinner, cake,open bar and wonderful deserts, and also someone to help me through every step.
You can also have a photographer and vidiographer, but you don't have to. I just had a photographer. My sister in-law didn't have either one, which saved her alot of money.
Don't forget hair, makeup, dress, invitations etc. I know it doesn't end!!!!!
I started planning a year and a half before my wedding day. The place where I had my reception was booked on the day I initionally wanted,so wherever you decide on your reception, I would call there first, and book it. Then you can start booking the rest of your wedding.
I hope I helped you some, at least this will get you started. As you start planning, the people you hire will also give alot of advice, so don't worry. I loved every moment, it's fun once you get started.
It's a beautiful and exciting time for you. Relax and enjoy it, and don't be afraid to ask for help from friends and family!
GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES!
2007-04-22 04:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by jobow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play music that all people at the wedding can enjoy. I am sure you are not the only one at the party that is a Kiss fan. Offer a variety.
Have it at a house or a local park or a rec hall. It is simple that way. You do not have to go elaborately at decorations but maybe a centerpiece on each table. Streamers here and there. Balloons.
This is how I did my parents anniversary party. Their 25th
I got gray everything: plates napkins, cups, streamers balloons. I had it at a local park with a huge grill. I catered for 50 people. I had a blast doing the party and everyone had a good time. The best part. I spent less then 400.00.
2007-04-22 02:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by bashfullyours1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem deciding on my wedding. I believe that a wedding should reflect "the couples'" personality. It's not about what everyone else wants or thinks is appropriate. People enjoy going to unique weddings. I once went to a wedding in October where everyone thought it was a costume ball, We were asked to dress up as our favorite TV/movie character. Most everyone was surprised to find out that it was a wedding! The groom was a prince and the bride was a beautiful princess. It was beautiful and unique! I believe that you should do a wedding to reflect whatever you both like, just remember that in 50 years (hopefully) you will always remember it as your very special day!
2007-04-22 05:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Livin the dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing Sarah. All you really need are:
Preacher or JP
Groom
Bride
Witness
My wife and I organized in a month. Reserved a "Courthouse Wedding Chapel" (capacity 20) across the street from the courthouse, sent invites, had some simple flowers, I rented a tux, wife got a ready-made dress, and our reception was at my son's house.
Dress w/alterations $600
Tux rental $100
Wedding Chapel with Preacher $100
Flowers $100
Invites $ 100
Pictures on digital provided by family & friends
Good Luck
2007-04-22 03:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a destination wedding would be perfect for you. You could go to:
New Orleans,
a cruise,
Gretna Green,
Disney World,
Napa Valley,
the Smokey Mountains,
the Poconos,
the Outerbanks,
Jamaica,
Mexico,
a gazillion different Carribean islands, etc.
The list goes on. Just make sure that you let people know at least 9-12 months in advance so that they can save money, and get time off. Good luck
2007-04-22 06:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a cool local club that you like that has a interesting atmosphere. Talk to the club owner and see if you can rent out the club to hold your wedding and reception there. Normally if you can gurantee that they will make what they would on the same average night they will work with you.
Serve funky finger foods with a slightly groument twist, mac and cheese in phyllo cups, pigs in a blanket, miniture burgers, sweet potato french fries with a sweet chili dipping sauce.
Get a live band to play and just have fun with it. Just cause its a wedding does not mean it has to be traditional.
2007-04-22 08:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding of only close family and friends can be the most fun. What is it that you and your partner love to do?
I just planned a backyard wedding. There were people grilling, playing Frisbee and a dog running around (all under a tent bought from Wal-Mart).
The best wedding in years.
2007-04-22 03:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Failing ECO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about getting married abroad, forget the music, dress in a sarong or a pair of shorts and get married on a beach and then go to a flash pub or a nice restaurant afterwards.
my cousin married the love of her life in a beautiful garden wearing bare feet and jeans because it suited their personalities. it was the most romantic and touching wedding - very simple. then they had a mad party the following week with music etc.
2007-04-22 02:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, the only thing you need to be concerned about is what you and your man wants. If you want to play KISS, then do so. The wedding is about you and him and the memories you two want to create. Do your thing Girl!
2007-04-22 02:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sande J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋