She lets you struggle to turn her into liking you and then she gently makes some suggestion that you should get lost.
2007-04-22 01:25:22 · 16 answers · asked by Peter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With a name like AMBER.. Maybe she's not into other girls..
Anything beyond a certain point is harassment...
2007-04-22 01:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity can make people push people away. Or its a defense move, used to protect oneself from being hurt.
Either way, she is pushing and pulling you around because of her issues.
The best advice I can give you would be to state how you feel.
Make these feelings very clear, but, that you will not play these games. I had this done to me once, and I ended up
projected his behavior to me onto him...so, we were both pushing and pulling each other around. In all this confusion,
we ended up frustrating each other to no end and I finally had to walk away. Good luck to you.
2007-04-22 08:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to "get lost". Look, for whatever reason she doesn't want a relationship with you. So, treat her with the same basic courtesy you do anyone else, and that's it.
2007-04-22 08:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just back way enough to redefine your own boundaries. I think it would be totally appropriate to spend some time apart before renewing your friendship.
2007-04-22 08:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand tall and be proud of who you are. Don't let her know what she did to you as you apparently are the better person here.
2007-04-22 08:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls tend to walk away..I think it is best at times because they don't want to hurt you and us men do it too...Don't take it personal.." dry your eyes mate, plenty more fish in the sea"..goodluck!
2007-04-22 08:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hit on her friends and talk bad about her like shes psyco.... totally make the wierd about her......If this gets back to her and she confronts you, tell her shes wierd and ask her to leave you alone
2007-04-22 08:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by steve d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never show or act or behave that you fell...instead continue to be proud
2007-04-22 08:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take her suggestion
2007-04-22 08:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Headbutt her. She was mean and needs to learn that it is not OK.
2007-04-22 08:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋