i had a galfrnd, we were in relationship for 3 years.we cudnt marry each other as parents were against. though we knew that we may never marry we used to maintain the relationship. frequently we used to have sex and once she also became pregnant and gone for abortion later. recently she got married to another person. we decided to breakup as it will create problems to both. it has been 8 months i never spoke to her i dnt kwn how her life is, but as to me its really hurting me that she is another man wife and shares everything with him. i always get the feeling that my wife is sharing bed with another man. Is it common for everybody who had sex with their galfrnd and not get married to her. Thoughs are hurting n killings me. iam becoming sick day by day.
2007-04-20 22:40:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
this is very sad, that you were still in love with her...but as a respect to her and her new life, you need to move on, and find another sweet girl to give your love too....meet some girls for friends, and always cherish what you had...it is so hard when you end a relationship, not because you want to, but because you had to...My prayers are with you, and you should pray to, to God and Jesus, to get you through this time...move on and wish her the best, if you really care...don't complicate things more for either one of you my friend.
2007-04-20 22:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same problem as u r going through. Look i know how bad u ill feel, when u in imagine yr girl with some1 else. i have felt the same way and in that process ruined my life too. if u keep on thinking abt it then in the future unknowing to u u might ruin her life. stop thinking like that. There is nothing wrong in her 4 loving her husband. dont hate her 4 that. just think that she is k life and that is all that matters. if u doing something that may hurt her then the guilt will haunt u through out yr life. dont do it. just leave her with a feel that she is happy. u too take care of yr life, she will not be happy if she finds out that u r sad then she also wont be mad
2007-04-24 16:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by z a a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry , I agree w/ Balkrish....
Save your bodies for AFTER the marriage. It is written in the Bible yet most of us choose not to listen...now look what has happened.....
Pray dear, and be happy that u had her in your life for a season. Some people don't get that much!
2007-04-27 14:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in repenting now. Those things you had to do, you didn't do. After certain time your life will be normal but you introspect yourself and correct things that were gone wrong. Now at least you can do is not to spoil the life of that girl.
2007-04-20 22:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by nanu T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its understandable! the way you feel so is because you ae still "mentally" attached with her. you need to send message to your mind that she is no longer yours. whatever happened happened in the past. every morning close your eyes & wish her happy married life. in few days you'll be feeling better.
you also need to ensure that you keep yourselves occupied with something so that you mind does not wander off to those thoughts. keep busy & move on with life. it won't be far when you'll meet girl of your life.
2007-04-22 01:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry dear. You are telling that u dont have any contact with her then y are u feeling guilty. The girl herself she is very calm then y u want to feel for it. And also one advice hereafter dont give any chance like this. ok dear.
Wishes
Abi
2007-04-20 23:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Madurai Malli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
jis kahani ko anjam tak na pahuncha sake;
use ek modh de kar bhulna , acchaa;
( if you can not take story - relationship- till its logical end;
then, best thing is - give it a twist & forget it )
turn yourself away;
keep moving - man;
its life - there would be many more interesting gals
coming in ur way; ( don't just sulk)
many-ques!!!
2007-04-27 01:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by many-ques!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go look for some other girl and have sex as quickly as you can you will find its just as good or maybe better.~~
2007-04-20 22:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can understand what y meant.you have sex . It is good and normal part of our life. Now what is the exact question y r asking and what happened .
2016-05-20 02:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just grit your teeth and bear it ,you had your opportitunity and you blew it ,and if you realy think a lot of her you would want her to be happy,so go find you another one,and go to work.
2007-04-26 17:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋