Mature muslim girls and hindu boys may only participate discussion on this subject
2007-04-20 20:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Civic Participation
Arranged marriages are a sign of a barbaric society that has no concept of freedom or human decency.
(But the Muslim women will definitely be treated better.)
2007-04-20 20:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well Muslim girls are very unlike Hindu girls. If you open a channel of discussion as you proposed, the only point they are going to discuss is try converting Hindu boys to Muslims,
so that they can marry them.
For a Hindu girl leaving her religion to marry some one may not be a big deal, but the same does not hold true for Muslim girls.
I dont know how many know this but "true muslims" believe that a marriage is legal in eyes of their God only when a muslim marries another muslim. All other marriages are invalid. So a mature muslim boy or a girl, first they get their love converted to Islam and then, only then marry them. Leaving religion means going to hell for them.
2007-04-23 08:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by dharmin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest that you wait at least another year before going forward with any marriage arrangements. The reason for this are manifold; both families will have time to think about the marriage between you and your boyfriend, you two will have more time with each other and can thus know the other better, parents of either side may change their mind, you may change your minds. After this one year is over, I would suggest that both your parents meet. As they say, when you marry someone you marry their family also. If you are set in your decision to marry then your parents should meet and see what the other family is like. The first answerer was right in a manner, you cannot convert to being a Hindu. There are some rituals that groups like the Arya Samaj have come up with, but there are no conversion methods in Hindu texts. This is because to be a Hindu, all you have to do is adopt a Hindu mindset and you can call yourself a Hindu. Being a complete Hindu woman is something special.. I don't think many Hindu women in India are even completely Hindu, so you will have a hard time finding someone to learn this from. However, there are certain things that your future mother-in-law can teach you, but most of these things you already know. Things like taking care of your prospective husband, showing respect to your elders, raising your prospective children in a good manner, etc are things that you already know. There are other things that you might have to learn, eg. observing proper customs in a Hindu temple. You will learn those things in time. Normally I do not advocate interreligious relationships because one of the people involved usually faces forced conversion, but your case seems different. If you are willing to live life as a Hindu with your Hindu husband (and his family), raise your children as tolerant, but strong, Hindus then I would suggest waiting (as suggested above) and then going ahead with marriage. Good luck with this, hopefully the outcome leads to your happiness. Please send me a message if you have anything you'd like to talk about..
2016-05-20 01:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Z news channel? Why not others?
Why mature muslim girls, why not other community girls?
Why only Hindu boys, why not all?
Why not the same for Hindu girls Vs Muslim boys?
2007-04-26 01:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Laveti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know every year over 2 lacs hindu girls kidnaped by muslims only for conversion in the name of love , muslim get rewards 1 lacs from mosque for every kidnaping .they have only one aim that is reduce hindu percentage of population , this is fact. belive it or not .
2007-04-21 18:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by prithvi 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It will be very beneficial to Unity of Hindu and Muslim.
2007-04-24 02:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by thirumoorthi m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes.....definately!!!c'mon..we r living in 21st century......y r the terms like "hindus" and "muslims" still used. We all r same...n if a girl likes a guy then y to bring religion in between to decide whether they should marry or not....at the end wat difference does it makes...opening a channel 'll open new ways for this required change in this world of ours...
2007-04-21 23:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Raman G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Minors must not be allowed to view channels for adults only because they could be in trouble due to contents not intended for them.
2007-04-20 21:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right. Marriage / love is in between 2 persons and not in 2 religions. Love see nothing.
2007-04-21 00:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its tough and critical mater
pls don't touch high voltage wires
2007-04-21 01:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by rakesh s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋