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2007-04-20 18:27:00 · 35 answers · asked by moutushi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

35 answers

I wouldn't really call it interfering. It's called raising your children.

2007-04-20 18:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by gumby 7 · 4 0

It depends on the what age u r, suppose if u r above 21 then it totally depends on understanding of child and parents, life is difficult but if u live it easy there is no difficulty. If u sacrifice and compromise in ur life with every one u will feel it easy to live.

Interfere is the word which is sometimes good for ur life and sometimes u don't wont someone to interfere in ur matters.
We should let ur parents/guardian to interfere in ur life but at the same time we should also see through our angle that r they right or not, but the decision will be yours.

Rakesh.

2007-04-20 19:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by RAKESH 1 · 0 0

if parent have the right to bring you to this world, then they do have right to interfere with their children's life...............

Any way it is for good and better life they have experienced all problems so they know what is right and wrong.......

But when children becomes a teenager then they feel they know everything and parent dont understand present life style....

what ever the situation in present future the consequences remain the same so parent can give you advice if they feel you are going through the wrong path..

You dont know how important parents are in life....because now you may not like them interfering but when you start your life with your partner and have a child then you will always need them. The girl will really know what mother means when she experiences motherhood.

when you feel bad just look at the world and think what if you were an orphan without parents to interfere what would be your life in todays society will you have this boyfriend or friends.Never.................

So think that way and try to respect them and obey them if it is sensible or give you opinion they will agree if they feel it is right and regret if it is wrong..

you are lucky you have them so.
If you are a parent and you have a child of your age will you allow your child to do anything they like good or bad.If they dont like your interference and shout at you. will you tolerate this.....
Ask this to yourself what you feel right may be wrong in their eyes.

As a woman , it is very easy to spoil you name and image ,
but difficult to earn a good name.So parents will take more care.

Afterall still if you happen to face problem then it is your fate.

2007-04-20 20:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by janam 2 · 0 0

It's a pity some people consider it interfering when I consider it caring. I care what my children do, I care about how they grow up to learn respect, I care that they get an education, and I care how they behave in public, if more parents cared about their kids then we wouldn't be having juvenile crimes as we do and we might not have had a Columbine High School fiasco as we did. Parents who care are called interfering well that is just fine with me, my kids will grow up knowing I loved them enough to teach them hard work pays off and we communicated when there was a problem instead of keeping it built up and at some points blow up. I love to interfere as you call it. I love my children. God Bless.

2007-04-20 23:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0 0

Depending on how old their children are! If the children are adults, parents should be able to let them make their own choices and and let them live their own lives. Parents will always be parents and perhaps by assisting their adult children in some way, the adult children think it may be interfering, which it isn't. Parents should know when to leave their adult children alone and let them make their own mistakes..and the adult children should not come whining home to Mom or Dad if they get themselves in a bind..that they cannot get themselves out of. Grow up and take the consequences.

2007-04-20 18:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by sun_beam61 3 · 0 0

Yes!! Children need discipline and praise and time and love. If parents don't interfere, how will the children know right from wrong? Good from bad? How will they learn to tell the truth, not to steal, not to talk to strangers, to brush their teeth, to put underpants on. I could go on forever. The answer is yes.

2007-04-20 19:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0 0

Yes... as long as they feel the children are not capable of taking their own decisions. After that they themselves would leave the children take the decisions, without interference,

2007-04-20 18:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Subhasis G 4 · 0 0

It depends on the context which you have not divulged.

If u consider Control, regulation, co-ordination, guidance etc as interference i would say YES parents should interfere.

2007-04-21 08:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chichi 3 · 0 0

It depends on the child's age. If they are minors they have every right to know what is going on because they are legally responsible for them. Once they are adults, unless asked for advice the parents need to take a step back and let them fail or succeed on their own. When they get married and have kids of their own they need to respect their spouse and not give unsolicited advice. If the child is on drugs as an adult and has kids then the parents should intervene for their grandchild's sake.

2007-04-20 19:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0 0

Yaah, of course.
They are parents and they can take any decision for you.
Even it is not an interfere, its a guideness of them. If you have some problem then nobody can know about it except our parents. They always wants to solve your problems. I know sometimes we have not able to tell them because of some reasons, but mostly parents are the only way to guide better yourself.

So be frank to tell them and dont missbehave with them.

2007-04-20 18:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO, they should not......instead of interfer they should be their friends. When children do something wrong in their views. Parents should recall their own child days, when they were children and committing same mistakes. Parents must realize this truth that time has changed very swiftly.

2007-04-20 18:37:46 · answer #11 · answered by The Answering Machine 4 · 0 2

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