i do a pregnancy test in each month and it kills me when i c that i am not pregnant knowing that so many girls who married at the same time i did are already pregnant. im still young. me and my husband study together in the same university abroad. we will celebrate our first anniversary on June. i don’t know why im in a hurry i really dont know but i feel like becoming a mom to make him happy and to fill our life with a new one. my problem is i always think what if there is something wrong with me ? am i normal? what i cant have children? i cant accept it and i cant stop thinkin of gettin pregnant. in my culture when a woman gets married people always ALWAYS asks her " are u pregnant?" and people keep asking me this question and I HATE IT .. i dunno what to do im so stressed . Im not sure if it’s the right time or not. And if isn’t ewhy I am not pregnant yet although we are trying for MONTHS ! what if something wrong with me :(
2007-04-20 18:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I know why you can't get pregnant; you worry about things waaayyyy too much! You're so stressed out- you can't THINK straight- forget about getting pregnant!!! Listen- cut it out. Nothing -and I mean NOTHING- is worth getting so wound up about. Life (and LOVE) is to be ENJOYED- not freaked out over. IGNORE what everyone ELSE does; FORGET how old you are; -just love your husband, enjoy your life & time together, and let things HAPPEN on their OWN when they're ready. Believe me- Ma Nature KNOWS what she's doing- even if YOU don't! ...So relax- & have fun! :)
2007-04-20 18:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything is probably fine. Some women it takes one time others it takes a while. My husband and I tried for a year and 3 months before I became pregnant and I had a healthy pregnancy. I stressed a lot too. Each month when I got my period I wanted to cry. My husbands grandmother died on May 5 and we were really close to her especially him and we concieved on May 8th. I guess my mind wasnt on trying for a baby. I also realized that sex became a baby race. Enjoy it stop worrying and it will happen. If it dosent happen in a year and a half see the Doc.
2007-04-20 19:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, hun, I really am. I have the same problem. And then I did get pregnant after 1 year and 9 months of no protection.
They say if you try solidly for 2 years and can't, then to get some doctoral help.
I lost my child 12 weeks ago and still haven't had a period, I think the procedure they did afterward screwed up the one working ovary I have.
I'm sorry, I probably made you feel worse.
Hope everything works out for you!
2007-04-20 18:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through. My husband and I tried for a whole year before we got pregnant. We were so worried about it all the time and so stressed thinking something was wrong with us. Finally we just stopped worrying and just relaxed and if it happened it happened and if it didn't we still loved each other and that's all that mattered.
2007-04-21 02:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by karen r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not harm your marriage, your hubby did. you probably did what you probably did, on the grounds which you have been seperated out of your hubby. He left you, with the objective of divorcing you. So, you hooking up with the different guy, there is not something incorrect with that. you're able to be able to desire to tell your hubby which you're pregnant with the different adult men infant. enable the different guy be attentive to besides. in the adventure that your hubby has something to assert, he desires to attain, he develop into cheating on you, together as you and he have been residing mutually. in my opinion, you probably did not cheat, so your husband won't be able to use that against you. you're attempting to make issues artwork, so initiate off by telling your husband the fact, be ordinary with him. If he comes to a decision to leave lower back, then he's probable nonetheless desirous to make certain that different woman. bear in mind, he cheated on you and he will probable do it lower back. i could additionally propose circulate to counselling to make certain why he cheated on you interior the 1st place.
2016-11-26 02:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this prob , but sweety getting stressed doesn't help and if your really stressed it can actually stop u getting pregnant , me and hubby tried for 2 years and then we gave up and when i wasn't stressed trying and just said if it will happen it will happen i got pregnant . just try and chill . theres probably nothing wrong but if its stressing you out loads get a fertility test from the doctor . and remember don't make the situation in to a chore just have fun baby making ;)
2007-04-21 00:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by bluepixie1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Track your ovulation. There are kits you can buy.
Also, try not to stress so much about it. Your body reacts to it in numerous ways.
On a "spiritual note", maybe the time isn't right for you yet.
Remember: PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!!
Good luck!
2007-04-20 18:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dirty Knees 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww.
You poor thing. :(
I'm so sorry for you.
2007-04-20 18:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋