She is going through repeated trauma. She has already taken various therapies like shirodhara, basti, abhyanga etc. and taking medicines also. She keeps taking abhyanga once in a month then she feels only one percent relaxation then she wants peace and care and if opposite of that happens then she finds herself in a terrible situation. She is having severe mood swings and she is unable to cope with severe stress. She herself says that she is not being herself and feels that she has gone crazy. She says she doesn't know what she says and how she has to behave? She feels that she has severe memory loss also. She even decided to commit suicide and wrote letter also. She is living with her in laws who are torturing her and not let her marriage certificate made. What should she do????? She wants to finish her life and can take this step any moment.
2007-04-20 17:53:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Get her to an in-patient mental health facility RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!! If you don't know where one is, take her to the nearest ER and do not leave until they administer a psych consult (it could take hours, but INSIST).
Your friend's life is in danger.....GO NOW!!!!!!!
2007-04-20 18:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by RHS91 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with previous poster RHS91......this is serious..she should go to hospital ER right away. She is suffering from some mental illness if she is saying she doesn't know what to say or how to behave and has memory loss. It sounds like she needs medical help NOW. Take her yourself and tell them about the suicide threat. Again, this is very serious and needs immediate attention!
She could have a physical reason for these symptoms, brain tumour or lesions for instance. Best not to suggest that to her but ER might do brain scan to rule out either psychological or physiological problem.
2007-04-20 18:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by lookwid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just speaking from personal experience, she should get the heck out of that house. she sounds like she is trying to run away from her depression but at the same time, she is living with the real cause. many people have no idea just how unhappy they are until they get out. and she sounds like she has no self esteem whatsoever. she needs some type of one on one counselling with someone she can open up to without being afraid or embarassed. is there no local community center that offers such a thing? we have one here in Ottawa, and I wouldn't be alive today without it. i even had my cab fare paid for by this program because i am slightly disabled and had no way of getting back and forth. some programs even help with babysitting costs if necessary. please search for her to find her something. I feel for her, I am very familliar with memory loss, it comes from stress. she needs a safehouse for abused women, emotional abuse is VERY real. and she should be able to find a place to go whether or not she has children.
2007-04-20 18:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by krazylady69a_99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go somewhere else to live!! runaway, what else. the husband should also understand. if he doesn't then he doesn't care about her illness. i have terrible m-in-law too. lucky enough i'm not living with her!!
i'm sure she must have been in long term depression, she must be feeling very tired and have no energy at all times..
help her to move out from the house first, help her solve other risk factors slowly and keep telling her the situation will get better. it will get better soon, but not as soon as overnight. so someone really needs to be there and help her. make her eat on time. be like a robot, just keep doing things, keep herself busy, and the thoughts will disappear for some moments...
also, she needs to see a psychiatrist urgently. get in contact with a GP so that the GP can refer her appropriately. this obviously needs to be done urgently.
that's all i can say......
2007-04-20 18:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Etoile 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs to get in a more stable inviorment so that she want harm herself. We all feel crazy at some times, but when we start talking about suicide, that is when we need professional help.
2007-04-20 18:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by tinymite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That woman needs more help than just YOU can give her. See if there are any half-way houses or women's shelters she can stay at. Call an emergency "Help Line" & explain your concerns to THEM. Try asking the heads of your local churches for help. Do WHATEVER it takes... -So that whatever happens to that woman- you will always know that you did your best... Take care, & good luck.
2007-04-20 18:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with those that say she needs to go immediately to a hospital Emergency Room! She is having serious symptoms and needs to see a doctor right away!
2007-04-20 18:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you see a consuler and try to get everything squared away, Don't worry! Lot's of us have to see consulers. I think it would be good for you to talk to someone about your problems. =)
Best wishes!
2007-04-20 17:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Caleb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋