Ladies- I need some help?

Question

so my boyfriend and i went on a date tonight :D it was our first date since we started dating. anyways, we saw disturbia, and he put his arm around me. the thing is- every single time during a movie a guy has put his arm around me, i always put my head on his shoulder, obviosuly.. anyways, i always get SO SORE. like, if it's not my ribs digging into my hips, my heads slipping off his shoulder, or i get a stitch in my back.

anyone have a tip on how i can make the pain GO AWAY? whats a good position for us to be in? also, i never know what to do with MY hands. his are around me, rubbing my arm, mine are just kinda awkwardly there... should i like put my hand on his knee?

Answer 1

OMG I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! I remember when I was on a double date with this guy, he put his arm around my shoulder, so naturally I put my head on his shoulder, and my whole side started aching, including my neck.

I think it has to do with the way you sit. Maybe if you would slouch down a little next time it could help or if he puts his arm around you again just grab the remainding part of his hand and hold it and lean your head back against your arm.

Good luck! ;-)

Answer 2

well the pain might be caused by the arm rest thing in the middle of the seat and holding hands is a really good idea. i don't think putting your arm on his leg is a good idea. he will probably get uncomfortable.

Answer 3

Just hold hands instead while watching the movie - there can be alot of flirting just doing that.

Answer 4

Go see a doctor

Answer 5

yeah, the knee is good.

As for the pain, I don't think I can help you with that.....

Answer 6

awwwww