Because i don't wanna lose him.
2007-04-20 16:15:02 · 50 answers · asked by Kitty123love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES YOU DO!
HE'S A PIG!
DO NOT DO IT!
LEAVE HIM!
2007-04-20 16:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If it is only not to lose him then no you should not have sex with him. Having sex is a big life altering decision and is not one you want to take likely. With sex comes responsibility, at the risk of sounding like a mom or a sex ed teacher, sex is a decision to be made by partners who truly care for one another. You have to be ready and for the right reasons. If you are not ready then tell him no. If he loves you he will understand, if not you are better off without him. You may not want to lose him but if he leaves you because of sex, it will make the "best" time with someone else so much better.
2007-04-20 16:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by saffron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are, how long you've been together, whether you have discussed sex responsibly and why you are having sex.
Keep it at legal age of consent and neither of you will go to prison lol.
If you've been together for a long time, well you probably are aching to get some.
You should discuss sex before you have any. It might sound like ruining the magic, but if you are not sexually compatible then you are screwed.
Also, why are you having sex? If you are doing it just because that's not a good enough reason.
2007-04-20 16:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...
If you think he is gonna leave you if you don't have sex with him, you better hit the road. If he doesn't respect your body the way you want him to, he isn't worth it at all. If you aren't ready, DO NOT DO IT. It is something you are gonna give away, & that is the one thing in life you can never get back. If you are a virgin, save your innocence. Only do it when you are ready & married. Not because you think you'll lose him.
I hope you make the right decision.
2007-04-20 16:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Guava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think the way you are now 'Because i dont want to lose him"
Ask yourself. Are you ready to have sex? What will the outcome be after you two have sex? Would he wait, or is he just into sex?
You can say no. Even though if you lose him, there are plenty of guys out there that you'll meet. Loosing him should'nt be your problem. If he respects you and Loves you, He will wait for you.
2007-04-20 16:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello....he's your boyfriend not your husband!! OK I know you don't want to lose him, but it's not a good way to think of it. If he leave you because you don't want to have sex with him; he never did love you. But you better tell him in a polite manner, that you don't want to have sex, and if he still insist on having sex you better leave him as he is not a good person. Think girl!! What would people say about you if you have sex before marriage.(our place it's like that)
2007-04-20 16:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by CuTe BaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you wrote would say that is because both are really in love, you have Had a lot of time together, etc. and you feel prepared, of course yes!!!
But if you want to use sex so he will not leave you is bad, because he is only using you to have sex, then he will leave you because he already got what he wanted and he will talk about you with his friends.
If he would really love you, he will not insist you in having sex, or if he asks and you tell him no, he will respect you.
If you decide to have sex, use protection (condoms)
2007-04-20 17:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way........ Do not do it, that is just his threat to get you to do it.
Look at this this way you don't do it and he leaves you you still have your pride, self esteem, no one can call you easy and hopefully you have never had sex before so you keep your virginity...
You do it and he leaves you now people will spread rumors and not only are you upset he left you but he took with him something so precious and you can NEVER get that back and you can never give it again.
You will regret it for the rest of your life...
Good luck and be strong, do not give into him buy him some lotion, and if that's not enough let him move on!!!!
2007-04-20 16:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesent respect u enough to wait untill u are ready, or preferably married, than he is not worth your time. I know what it is like to want intamacy with someone you love, but there are other ways to show affection. If he is pressuring you to have sex with him and you know in your heart that it is not the right time trust your instincts. Let him know that you really care about him and don't want to loose him, but your self respect is not worth giving up for a relationship that may or may not work out. Tell him u want to make sure things are headed in the right direction first. Good men are everywhere find one that respects and loves you for who you are and you have found a good one. Love yourself and respect others
2007-04-20 16:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by troubble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it depends on how old you are then it depends on how long you've been with dude but it really depends on what YOU really want to do. If sleeping with the man is in your heart and not because you don't want to lose him but because you want to open yourself up and share yourself with him and give him that special part of you then thats what you do but if your having ANY type of misgivings you need to hand the man a time - out certificate and decide if he is worth any more time and effort!
2007-04-20 16:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by smartheartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the fact that you think you might lose him is the reason for it, then you should not. He should be willing to wait.. Understanding that you may not be ready. Never give in and has sex. Only have it when you're ready for it..
2007-04-20 16:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋