If you went out, why does he want to hide it to begin with? I would not like to date in secret....... That doesn't seem right.
If you are dating him and you like someone else, I would end it before you start dating someone else. It is called respect. It sounds like you should end it anyway. Liking someone and acting on it are two different things, except the bible says that if you are married and even think about it, it is adultery.
It sounds like he wants to date you in secrete because he is either ashamed of going out with you, or he should not have went out with you, or he would get made fun of by going out with you, etc...
If someone can't go out with me and be seen in public and let others know, then you shouldn't date that person. You would probably be better off as friends.
2007-04-20 15:04:20
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answered by Stephanie F 7
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First off, You need to decide who you like more. Who do you have more feelings for? Who treats you better? Once you decide that everything will be easy. If you like 1 more person it is not technically cheating on him because you just think the other person is cute or nice. It does not really mean you have feelings for them. So no. You should stop liking the other person even know if you like him it should not affect your relationship with the other guy. But it would not be right cause if you think you love one guy you should not like anyone else.
Last, I can understand why he is mad? How would you like it if your boyfriend told everyone you were going out with him but you wanted no one to know. So that is all I can say. Good Luck.
2007-04-20 22:09:33
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answered by lilmisscheergirl1108 1
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Well just tell him the truth..and if u dont like him a lot then dont go out wit him!
No that doesnt mean that ur cheatin on him..if u go out wit that guy at the same time then ya thats cheatin!...But everybody has a person that they like instead of their boyfriend its nothin new!
If u really like the person then keep on sayin that u like him!..Nobody can tell u who u can or can not like!
Idk i think they just get really jealous..same wit mi ex he got jealous and i said if u get jealous for me talkin to a guy then its over!..But idk they r just different and they suspect stuff thats not true!
2007-04-20 22:05:17
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answered by Laura 1
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likeing some one else doesnt mean you are cheating but sure says your are not fully commited
decide who you like better
guys have a controlling side and find little things to pick on
and my question to you is why is your boyfriend hiding your relationship has he got another girl? most couples want to show how they feel about eachother not hide it. think about it
2007-04-20 22:03:07
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answered by jenperera 2
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Oooooh you are scr*wed.
The Bible says that if you are even thinking about being unfaithful you are committing a serious sin.
I suggest you go to the church and say three hail mary's. You should be forgiven by that stage.
2007-04-20 22:03:53
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answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5
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1. just let him be your friend.i guess you don't love him.
2. if you have a relationship but you still date another one, that's cheating!!!
3. you should break up with your present BF, i think he is the one cheating, he will understand
4. Jealousy baby..... boys hates boys when it concerns the heart. boy thinks of himself as the king of the world. Please understand us!!!
2007-04-20 22:13:52
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answered by hacker_lexy 3
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Um, he's a jerk if he says you need to keep your "relationship" a secret. That's ridiculous.
2007-04-20 22:00:50
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answered by BG 3
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