I think that I am pretty but I have a larger forehead and really not that much confidence. Boys never want to date me. I think that it is because of my forehead. I was so used to getting joked on throughout my life about my forehead that I just kind of have a moody attitude. I don't know if that plays a factor or not. So my friend tells me that I need to lower my standards and try to talk to boys that aren't so attractive and like me but I don't like them instead of going for the ones that I like but don't like me. But i feel as if that will mean that I have no self esteem and settle for anybody , For me I sort of go for looks. I always want the nice looking bot with a nice body build nice smile and all. My friend tells me that my standards are too high? Do you all agree? What should I do to be more open to people
(boys in particular) and not turn them off?
2007-04-20 14:47:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Italy ➔ Bologna
Hey Herman Munster, didn't you (and a million others) ask this same question last week, under a different name?
2007-04-20 14:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nicole Kidman's forehead is the size of a drive in movie screen and she didn't have any problem. Cut some bangs. I am older now but was very attractive as a younger woman and I was attracted to the best looking guy in the place...and could land him but with age I have discovered the age old axiom that beauty is only skin deep is true. Just be a nice, friendly person and the people worth knowing will be attracted to you. Don't think about "lowering your standards" go for the best person who may happen to be very handsome or may be an absolute diamond in the rough.
2007-04-20 14:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by fishingbabe8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not settle or lower your expectations for somebody you have no feelings for. The thing is, it will sneak up on you when you like somebody. It doesn't matter what they look like really. Yes the pretty boys are nice eye candy. Who isn't attracted to that? But someday you will find somebody who is right for you. In the meantime, there is no harm in looking and flirting!
As for your lack of self confidence, it will show in you everyday life. Work on it. Find some hobbies, interests etc.
As for your forehead, have you seen some movie stars with larger foreheads? Christina Richi, Cameron Diaz, Reese Witherspoon etc. Plenty! If it bothers you, try a side swept fringy bang that hits right above your eyes.
Be proud of who you are. :)
2007-04-20 14:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit posting the same thing & get over it already. I can tell you right now, your forehead may be the size of Texas, but the reason nobody wants to date u is coz u are a pain in the rear end. If your constant posting is indicative of your life you whine whine whine and nag nag nag & bit#* bit%# bit$%.
Your forehead is just the kicker.
Go out for the soccer team, and smack some balls with that big ole forehead.
You won't rate it so, but this is the BEST ANSWER.
2007-04-20 14:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by royride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One name cristina ricci, she has a larger forehead and lots of guys think she is hot and would date her. My opinion If you are happy with you then you need to carry on and hey you know what it is thier loss not yours. They missed the next best thing to a movie star! lol Don't lower your standards but dont be too judgemental like people are doing to you(or so you feel) remember to do onto others as you would have done onto you.....give someone who sees you for you a try no matter what they look like....Cheers
2007-04-20 14:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ken J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you deserve to stay lonely and single if you single guys out over looks - you say you aren't that great looking, yet you won't give guys a chance who are the same looking as you. How ironics..
You know those same guys are asking the same question? They just want someone as well, and then here you are saying you shouldn't "settle" for them when they might just be a great guy.
ANd yes, this is coming from just an avg-looking guy
2007-04-20 14:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Uh Oh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sounds awfully silly. I was teased about my name - what was I supposed to do? If you really are that self-conscious and want the easy way to fix this - grow a set of bangs (hair) over your forehead. Do NOT lower your standards - your friend is wrong.
2007-04-20 14:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe keep your high standards and get a better hair cutter to accent or cover your forehead.. Not totally,but you can get a good cut to distract from the forehead..
2007-04-20 14:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From the sounds of it you're pretty insecure about your looks. In reality we all are in some little way. Instead of focusing on "standards" find people who share similar interests that make you laugh. Then you can focus on the boyfriend thing.
2007-04-20 14:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
fate will send you a guy. just wait he''ll come eventually. dont set standards as no-one has all the qualities you are after. a nice looking guy usually knows hes good looking and acts like a jerk. go for someone average (im not saiying ugly) hes likely to be nicer and treat you the way you want to be.
2007-04-20 14:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by jenperera 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think your forehead is the first thing to turn off the guys. You nailed it on the head when you said you don't have much confidence. It's harder to find someone when you're busy thinking about why they don't like you....
2007-04-20 14:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋