Do you think a good-looking person looks ugly when their personality sucks?

Question

I read an article about this, i don't remember much but it was something alone the lines of 'no matter how handsome/pretty someone is, if their personality sucks, then they start to look ugly to other people' what do you people think about this? Personally I agree with this!

Answer 1

Of course.

Answer 2

Definitly! I can apply this question to my self , because I relate to it and I happen to be one of those persons .(Not to be concited or any thing but...) I happen to be a fairly atrtractive person with good looks. But I know very well , that when I throw a tantrum or even act like a ***** !to people just because I'm having a bad day(wich it isn't any one elses fault by the way) I notticed people don't even give me the time of day. I came to this conclussion a couple years ago ,I had a very beautiful drop dead gorgeous friend of mine , she had a beautiful boluptious body beautiful wavy strawberry blonde long hair down to her waist and the most beautifull green eyes and prettiest little face ...She was always mean and rude to people always frowned and every thing that came out of her mouth was a curse word..None of the guys we went out with wanted to go arround her again,there fore YES!if you have an ugly prsonallity you will deffinitly wont be as attractive.

Answer 3

I agree completely. When you meet a person who is outwardly attractive, its normal to think that their personality will be the same.

Over time, their personality traits reveal things about them that are not attractive, thus changing your perspective and altering your point of view.

Conversely, there are many outwardly unattractive people who are first glance you discount, and after time show mannerisms and personality traits that make them much more attractive.

A nice smile, a good sense of humor, a twinkle in the eye and an intelligent wit as well as a confidence in manner makes them very attractive.

Answer 4

I agree with you absolutely. Think of how evil a pretty person looks when they're up to no good or they have a poison spirit. Lots of movies about high school cliques have pretty people doing terrible things -- and although they might be stylish and glamorous, their ugliness inside finally makes them pretty horrible. One of the good things about maturing is that you become able to see past the surface prettiness and see beauty inside otherwise plain-looking people who do good, nice, pleasant or sweet things. George Orwell once wrote in his journals that "by age 50, everyone has the face they deserve." I think that means that your character, good or bad, will eventually find its way to the surface and affect your looks.

Answer 5

I agree. I know a very, very beautiful woman who has become quite ugly and looks much older than her age. Sometimes she can look pretty again or you can see a glimmer of it when she is genuinely trying to be nice, but usually she just looks ugly to me...even though she's beautiful. Her smiles are tight, she always looks angry, etc. etc. etc. She chose to live a tough life so I guess that's why she acts ugly (and thus looks it.)

Answer 6

Well, I would say they definitely start to look less attractive. "Ugly" is a bit harsh, though.

It's only natural to lower your opinion of their appearance if their personality "sucks"; perhaps they are obnoxious or brash, and you don't have anything in common with them.

It's just personal instinct to be attracted to people who have similar interests. That's why sometimes you'll see someone that may not be the most attractive person in the world, with a very attractive person. You may wonder "How the heck could he be with her?" or, "How the heck could she be with him?" But it all comes down to common interests, social skills, and subsequent chemistry.

Answer 7

It works both ways. Someone attractive on the outside, but ugly on the inside, becomes less attractive to us (even visually). Case in point there's a real good looking guy where I work. I initially liked him (as a person), but found out he's really quite a snake and thus now, I could puke when I see him. He's not "cute" to me anymore, but repulsive.

Conversely, someone who is not so physically attractive, but lovely on the inside, can become the most "beautiful" person we know...and our eyes light up when we see them...because of who they are. They become attractive to us in every way.

Answer 8

I agree. If a person is beautiful on the inside, it shows outside. I have encountered it personally. A pretty face can mask great evil. I feel so sorry.

Answer 9

OM!! Absolutely!!!!!!!!

Just like an average looking guy/girl can become the most beautiful/gorgeous thing you've ever laid eyes on because what they are inside captures your heart...

What is on the inside can compliment or take away from what is on the outside...

meaning...

ugly girl + great personality=very appealing girl
beautiful girl + horrible personality=ummm....OK girl
ugly guy + great personality=awesome guy
hot guy + horrible personality=ummm...OK guy

Answer 10

Oh, yes. I know this guy who everyone thinks is DREAMY, but he knows everyone thinks that, so he is a cocky, annoying little snotrag...and I can't stand him. He is so unattractive to me, just because of his personality. I think a physically unattractive person, who is funny, and honest, is so attractive.

The sexiest thing in the world is a man who is good with kids...even if he looks like carrot top.

Answer 11

Yes, I've seen it happen. He was so sweet to me because I've known him since I was like 8, and then he asked me out and I rejected cuz I didn't like him anymore than a friend and he became an asshole, and despite how hot he was, his personality made him UGLY.