Have met great guy and can't imagine ever letting him see my body. I know it is common for many women who have had children but i never thought i would be single again and it never bothered my husband. Any suggestions?
2007-04-20 14:35:11 · 8 answers · asked by scooter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be embbarssed
2007-04-20 14:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are....but unless you are looking for a very young man many men over the age of 30 have been sexually active with a woman who has had children. Most women do not have the tummy tuck. I have known many very thin women who have that mommy tummy...so we all have it. Accept it.
Once you feel comfortable with yourself, men will too. They sense insecurity and they don't know where it is coming from so naturally they think you feel uncomfortable about them. Of course, they start thinking it is their size.....
Feel reassured that a good lover will not be turned off. One of my favorite lovers ever found all of me endearing, especially parts that I didn't like! There is nothing like a lover who not only accepts you as you are but makes you feel incredibly beautiful.
That is the sort of partner we all should have and keep. Don't settle for less and don't let anyone rain on your parade.
2007-04-20 21:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dear Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym but join one with some benefits like a jacuzzi to relax sore muscles. You will see a miracle in a matter of months.
2007-04-20 21:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by ARLENE H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start exercising and eating better. If you like the way your looking then just say good things that you like about your weight.
2007-04-20 21:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by momo13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on an exercise program.
Otherwise you can wait it out and hopefully you'll be able to trust him in time.
2007-04-20 21:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No body is perfect. Relax.
2007-04-20 21:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Diet and exercise.....it works and you'll feel better. maybe you could go to gym together....
2007-04-20 21:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sam h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea called liposuction. not that expensive but quick way to loose fat. or, you can hit the gym/park.
good luck!
Paul~
2007-04-20 21:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋