I'm 17, and whenever i talk to girls just being a friend, it's like they want "us" to talk better
But i worry about school for now and i only want friends( girls, guys)
is there anything i do wrong or i have to change when talking to girls?
2007-04-20 13:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be more off putting the bulge in the front of you pants is not helping matters at all.~~
2007-04-20 13:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls are needy and weird at that age, always wanting a guy every moment of every day... I'm not surprised they want you. I guess you should just let each one know you're not looking for a relationship right now, but you really value their friendship and stuff like that. Don't give them hope of more, girls read that into stuff all the time. Perhaps you really should just stick to guy friends.
2007-04-20 20:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with u! U just got ur head in the right place, while the other girls dont. Just make sure that u let all ur girl friend know that u arent interested in lookin for a gf, and they should understand.lol. u probably are attractive, which makes all the gurls fall for u!^_^ Just keep focusing on dat schoolwork, cause I bet thats enough already 4 u!
2007-04-20 20:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by xxxblukrystaltearsxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very cautious when talking, some times you can unknowingly send the wrong message of real interest to another when you are just being a good conversationalist and
listener
2007-04-20 20:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fine...it's common for girls of that age to think any interest from a guy is boyfriend interest...and a lot of girls unfortunately think they aren't 'complete' without a boyfriend.
Be yourself...but make it clear when you communicate with gilrls that you're not interested in dating, just having friends...kewl that you've got school as your priority.âº
2007-04-20 20:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably really hot and that's all girls can think about when they talk to you. maybe show some of your more undersirable qualities. lol i really don't know ive never had this problem lol. you seem to be well off-do youthink you could help me with the question i just posted cause im really confused :( goodluck with u :)
2007-04-20 20:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when you first talk to a girl for a friend you cant act like you want to be with her you have to act in a friendly way thats probley the reason....
2007-04-20 20:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by prettydimesexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have other friends watch how you interact with girls that you just talk too, maybe you are giving them signal that you are interested in them, like touching, hugging, putting your arm around them, wrinkling at them. it not easy for guys/girls to be just friends.
2007-04-20 20:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol aaw im sorry your so irresistably attractive, its a hard life i know, lol hey look its fine just to have friends but its not a big deal if girls want more just lay out your boundaries and keep them as friends no one is making you date them
2007-04-20 20:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing turns a girl on more that a guy who isn't hounding her for sex and one who will listen. so while you're thinking good friend they're thinking good catch
2007-04-20 20:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by mckinney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋