My sons sister, who just recently turned 7, came for a visit. (Me and their dad are not together, but I love her just the same) She wrote and said some very troubling things i.e. KISS THE ONE YOU LOVE GOODBYE and LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF. Her dad was concerned about her and boys, so I pulled her aside & had a "mom to daughter" conversation with her and I discovered that she is in an abuse relationship with her boyfriend at school (I know, she's only 7) but he makes her do degrating things like follow him around the playground and not play with her friends, and he tells her that he will kill her. Of course I brought it to her dads attention and in return he brought it to her mothers attention. Her mother basically disciplined her, didnt get to the root of the problem as to why she is doing these things or allowing these things to be done to her. So, my question is now what? What should be said or done to get her out of the situation. Her mom is NOT a help & she's long distance. NE advice?
2007-04-20 12:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Prettibrneyez23 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Contact the school and speak to the principal. Why hasn't her father taken any action?
2007-04-20 12:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact the school or encourage your ex to and find out who her teacher is and talk to either the teacher or the principle about this and make it clear that they should speak to the boy's parents as well. I'm sure though the boy takes this after his dad but he's only 7 and it's really unacceptable at this age, or any age for that matter.
2007-04-22 04:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by AngieBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Seven year olds don't have boyfriends.
2. Make that clear to her.
3. Tell that little boy's parents and the school
4. Follow-up and make sure something got done. The school is liable.
5. Get the police involved.
2007-04-20 17:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by jon s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the counselor or her teacher and tell them about that serious matter. Also, try to get some counseling for her outside of the school. Also, take in consideration relocating her to a different school. I won't like her to grow abused. If anything of this won't work, call child services and ask for help for her.If her parents are not doing nothing, please you do. Just think about that maniac at the Virginia College. Take her away from danger. You'll save her life.
2007-04-20 13:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would any body let they're 7 yr old in a relationship and why punish maybe shes seen it be done or shes just very afraid of him and doesnt know who to tell and for all u know this boy could have been abused or could be getting abused wether its cause of verbal, fisical or sexual. and thats his way of feeling like he controlls some part of his life wether it be ur daughter or his friends its just that children with that kind of anger the anger results from years of abuse you should really talk to the principle and if it gets to serious place a restraining order on this boy!!!by the way this thing about killing her try talking to the parents cause this kid needs counseling
2007-04-20 12:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by chex_1r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in a tough position because you really don't have a place. I think the only thing you can do is encourage her to do better. You could encourage your ex to call the school and see if the teachers can keep an eye on things.
2007-04-20 12:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call her school? It sucks that you are not the mom or even the custodial parent, but I would think that these days they might be more willing to take action to prevent any more violence or bullying in any form.
Good luck! God bless you for trying!
2007-04-20 12:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be something you should talk to the school about. even though, they might not do anything, the school should have a talk with the boy's mother to find out more on this killing thing.
2007-04-20 12:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by whollysmokes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the school.And also call the CPS and tell them whats going on and how the mom just blew it off.
2007-04-20 15:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately take action. do not let this go. it's good to hear someone is conscerned about this whole situation. Maybe talk to the boyfriend's parents.
2007-04-20 12:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by canadian cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋