my boyfriend is really hot and all the girls always talk to him and flirt with him . he doesn't flirt back but whenever i see it i cant help but getting really jealous. i usually just dont say anything because it happens so often. how can i keep from blowing up and getting really mad at either him or the other girls?
2007-04-20 12:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by cufcchic199 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Feeling and acting are two different things. First try to control how you are reacting. The feeling aspect will be harder to control. But you may be able to over-come this.
Instead of feeling jealous, try to channel your emotions in a positive way. My husband has girls flirting with him and I trust him completely. He doesn't flirt back, but he is nice to other people. One way I find works for me, instead of feeling jealous, I remind myself that my husband chooses to be with me. He loves me and I am flattered that other people also find him attractive.
It's not his fault that other women find him attractive. As long as the other girls aren't touching him and trying to feel him up, I just stand there and smile and he puts his arm around me. Stand your ground and with your body language and make it known he belongs to you.
2007-04-20 13:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been in this boat in the previous. I even have alot of guy friends, in particular becuase they are much less dramatic than ladies, and my (ex)boyfriend concept i replaced into doing the deed with all of them. I too, am in love with the boy. We split up for some months, and he grew up. He stopped being so paranoid and general the reality i replaced into going to have friends of the alternative intercourse. i attempted speaking to him additionally, even with the undeniable fact that it did no longer help lots. He used to coach out while an entire stranger looked in my everyday course. adult males are wierd. they think of we are wierd too. he's appearing jealous because of the fact he sees "Bob" as a risk. you are the prize and he would not choose the competetion, Bob, around you.
2016-10-28 14:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop self confidence as well as confidence in the behavior of your boyfriend.
2007-04-20 12:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if he isnt flirting back you shouldnt hav a problem. U no wat I would do. I would grab those girls and pull them aside and say "Girl you better stop flirtin wit my man". Thats wat I would say. If ur not really that type of person, u should give them dirty looks while he isnt looking so they get the message.
2007-04-20 12:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by little s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind, getting jelous will only push him away... its hard not to feel that jelously thing, but you MUST keep in control or youll loose him
2007-04-20 12:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by s p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always keep your peace..,be patient all the time.
2007-04-20 12:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Badmus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your sure of him act it and nothing will become of it. if you complain the nagging will send him off in that direction.
2007-04-20 12:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by gayannboxing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you trust him?
2007-04-20 14:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by groovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋