Me and my EX have spent about 1 1/2 years all together. I had his child in Jan. of this year. We broke up over something really stupid, he called the police on me yet he threw me onto a bed and I hit him back. (he took my cell phone and keys too.) He has been playing head games by telling me he don't want me, then he wants to make it work back and forth. Then everytime he wanted it to work he would try to blackmail me by saying "YOU HAVE TO DO THIS IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME." He calls me crazy because I am infatuated with him, I can't get over him.. Everywhere I go there is something to remind me of him and I cry. Anything on TV, radio.. I cry. My son looks JUST LIKE HIM and I am very sad because he says he DOSEN'T love me and wants nothing to do with me AT ALL. I have been trying to GET OVER HIM but I can't. Having a baby with him too makes it real hard, because he fathered y child. I love him with all my heart. I want to be with him. How can I get him back? I can't wait it out either
2007-04-20 11:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by blahh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get therapy and NOW!
you'll lose your son, you HAVE lost him, and LET HIM GO
2007-04-20 11:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea, this guy is going to end up beating you. This is not a good situation at all. You need to focus on this child and make sure the child doesn't grow up like his dad. This guy sounds horrible, why do you want him back? Women should be treated with the utmost respect and adoration. This guy is treating you like a stray dog.
2007-04-20 11:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Paul S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its seems like yall DONT need to be together. He has a control over you and he knows it, its gonna get bad and then worse. Its not right for the baby to see yall have an unhealthy relationship cause that will make your child unstable. Leave him alone and just let him be apart of his childs life.
2007-04-20 11:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you are saying is true maybe he doesnt deserve you. But the best way to make him feel like you were the best thing that happened to him is to throw another relationship in his face. I should know i got pregnant when i was 19 with a man that i thought that i was in love with ( he was dating my foster sister at the time of our relations) but when he left the relationship because i got pregnant to be with my sister i just let it be and i went on to have a set of twins and met the guy i actually did fall in love with. Turns out that the guy you think you are in love with may just be another guy in a long line of guys till you find the one you are meant to be with. And if you are meant to be with him he will come back to you. So till then keep living your life and raise your son if it was meant to be he will beg for you back. It happened to me but i was already married to the one i loved.
2007-04-20 11:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Smurph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to wake up and take a long hard look in the mirror.
This is no longer about you, it is about your son!!
You need to make all your decisions based on what is best and safest for him.
This guy sounds like a looser, focus all your attention on being the best mother you can be without him, he is abusive, he has abused you and he will abuse your son
2007-04-20 11:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by JesJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 01:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and dump him NOW before it escalates. Get into therapy - there are clearly other issues at play here.
2007-04-20 11:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Blossom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just scared to be alone right now...You better get out now and get counseling before this "relationship" gets worse...Good Luck!
2007-04-20 11:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is very immature and is a coward for not stepping up like a man should.
2007-04-20 11:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooh so sad...seems so serious.... i had bad experienced too but it was me who left x
2007-04-20 11:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by pinkbullet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋