ok there's this guy and i love him with all my heart but he's hurt me like 3 times...he say's he loves me 2 so do u think he really does i mean i feel like he does he just has a lot of problems and i think thats wat make's him be mean and rude!!!!! Do u think he does???
2007-04-20 10:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look this guy that i was dating did the same thing to me... take my advice and leave him because if he hurt you once there's no stopping him from hurting you again... i was told that guys are always horny and stuff... the only thing is that chances are that's the only reason he's telling you that...
2007-04-20 10:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by cleo51089 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he loves you so much then he would not hurt you like you says he does. My friend went through the same situation and she ended up having a mental break down because he cheated on her 3-4 times. But as I was saying if he loves you then he wouldn't hurt you unless he didn't mean to, on top of that you shouldn't lower yourself to the point you put up with a guy's crap ok? You are so much better than that and if he can't see that then he needs to get a grip. Well I hope everything works out for you.
2007-04-20 18:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cathia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there is no excuse for being mean and rude to some one you love, especially 3 times!!!! If he has alot of problems at the moment it might be best that you take a slight brake. My girlfriend and I did that for like 3 months. We gave each other some space. I mean we were still going out on dates and all, but didnt push on that whole relashionship thing. If he's still mean to you after giving him some time and space, then maybe it's time to move on. It's hard to be happy with someone who makes you unhappy, even if he loves you and you love him.
2007-04-20 18:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by dollphins06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no, there is no room for meanness in lone, love is respect,putting the other person before yourself,its patient and long suffering and if none of these are met then honey its not love hes telling you what u want to hear three times will turn into 4,5,6, times and soon youll be saying well its not as bad as the time before stop this now and kick him to the curb find a boy that will treat u with all the respect and love u deserve dont be taken for granted
2007-04-20 17:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by dwtnjuliebrown1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, and not just for a few days, but a PATTERN of reasonable behavior is to be expected.
Sorry, I'd dump him...However, that's because I think better of myself than aparently you do yourself. Sad...
Grace
2007-04-20 17:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parnters hurt each other without even realizing it. Now if he did something like flirt, hit you, or cheat, than that's not cool and you should think about leaving. but if it's something that's not MAJOR maybe you should cut him some slack. Hard times and stress cause people to say or do things they don't mean. I know from experiance. Good luck
2007-04-20 18:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why do you love a man who's hurt you so many times and is mean and rude to you? If he really loved you, he wouldn't treat you badly. Why do you put up with it?
2007-04-20 17:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear dear, come on what are u trying to do to yourself and allowing him to do to u ? he has cheated 3 times,hes mean and rude,u also say hes got problems-now his problems are becoming yours! there are some people who love to have someone around when they are lonely,to do things for them.but really dont care for u.that is not the way someone who cares about u treats u.Dont u think u deserve better?if u are young and accepting this now,u are just setting yourself up for future abusive relationships,cause this guy is ruining your self-esteem.get out now! dont stay with someone just to have someone.please do something for u.GOod luck to u dear.
2007-04-20 18:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by rosalind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if he did why did he hurt you 3 times?
2007-04-20 17:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurts you 3 times and you forgave him 3 times he thinks you'll always take him back tell him like you mean it this time and really mean it if he still does it again then don't take him back anymore if he loves you he wouldn't hurt you..
2007-04-20 18:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋