Im a freshman in highschool and me and my girlfriend have been dating for 6 months now and the farthest we ever go is making out.. I don't know how to tell her that I think we are ready to go to another level. How do I tell her that I think that we should go to 2nd base or something, and just keep things from getting boring?
2007-04-20 10:26:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not saying I just wanna have sex with her, im just saying I want to do more, but not THAT much more.. and believe me I could go without that cause I love her anyways..
2007-04-20 10:33:50 · update #1
i think shes going to reject you. why because sex already ? trust me i know more couples out there that have been dating for years and didnt have sex yet. your taking it to fast and she might be thinking about like you want her because of sex. freshmen is a an age where you get focus in school and just have fun. it's not the right and perfect to have sex with a girl you just date for six months and trust me, she is going to reject you.
2007-04-20 20:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by MHD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have easy, open communication with each other, then simply ask her how she feels about going to another level. If she agrees, then you've got yourself something to look forward to, but if she refuses or seems unsure, then lay off and don't pressure her, otherwise it could scare her away. If you can't talk openly, then maybe going to the next "base" isn't such a good idea. But if you're positive that it's the best thing, then just try it once you've been making out for a while and see what happens.
That being said, if there are any problems in the relationship, don't go any farther than making out. Groping, fingering, and sex will just make matters complicated, even if at first it seems as if it fixed the problem. Pause before you play, buddy! <3
2007-04-20 17:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been together for 6-months and are still in high school. SLOW DOWN! There is no need to rush sex at your age. What's worse: Making out all the time and it being boring or being saddled with an STD or a kid or both at an early age?
DON'T GO THERE! Enjoy being young and leave the adult activities to the adults.
2007-04-20 17:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i am English i am unsure how old a freshman is.
The thing you should realise is that if you are both getting on then you do not need to tell her, as you will both know when the moment is right and move together. You should not tell her you believe you want to move bases, she will feel liek you are forcing her to anotehr level. Accept what you have at the moment and treat her with respect and understand that it will move when youa re BOTH ready.
2007-04-20 17:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by sam_keane_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she plays baseball does she ... hummm maybe you r a little young too hit that 2nd base although it makes much more of an exciting game ... What if you can't stop at 2nd base? what will you do? You might just have to travel lol...lol...lol... 3rd is when things get interesting .. And home runs ....Honey wait till you r married!!! BABy... there is more to life than SEX!!! You do need to tell her how you feel though ,it helps build your relationship...
2007-04-20 17:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking as a woman i would say it would be better to set the mood one night and just see if it happens, it can be an awkward thing to talk about and if the mood is right with candles nice music and maybe cook her a nice intimate romantic meal first etc she will know what you want without you having to say it and also it will make it more special than if you just blurt it out that you want to take it further
2007-04-20 17:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by vicky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another level is after both of you are atleast 18.
2007-04-20 17:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its shouldnt be boring no matter what you do, going further may be "fun" for you but if she isnt ready its not going to be good for her and she will resent you
2007-04-20 17:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by debbie v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so dating someone without sex is boring? i didn't know.
2007-04-20 17:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are in highschool... wait abit more
2007-04-20 17:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋