ok i know this girl and she is nice and everything and me and her are friends i am wondering if i should ask her out because but i dont know what she will say or if she says no and someone finds out then that would suck
2007-04-20 09:21:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of life is a chance-ask her, you may regret it later if you dont. Ever hear the expression " Nothing ventured nothing gained"?
2007-04-20 09:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i told my son when he was younger, most girls like a boy who knows what he wants. if you like her and want to go out with her, just ask. if she says yes, yea! if she says no, then ok, you saw what you wanted and went for it. no one ever got anywhere worrying about what someone else thought. plus, most of my son's class mates thought he was just the bomb-diggity because he would go up and ask out the most popular girls and usually they said yes. then the guys would all smack him and say 'you suck, i wish i had the guts to do that.' so dont sweat it, most of your friends are just as insecure as you right now, but if you learn to overcome it, and sometimes the answer may be no, but in the end, you will feel better and probably have a cute gf to boot.
lotsa luck,
lily
2007-04-20 09:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give to this is to go for it. Ease into the question though, you don't want her to think that's all you became friends for. You only live life once, so take chances, and if you face rejection it only makes you stronger. I know that's hard to hear, but life is full of rejections big and small, it's just a matter of dealing with it. So go for it, live life. I hope this helped.
Shane.
2007-04-20 09:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by shane_danisher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what people will say just go for it. she may very well be thinking the same thing. the worst thing she can say is no. so it isnt that bad. and it isnt like she is going to go around like omg he asked me out lets all make fun of him. if you want to test the waters go out as friends. or with a group of friends.
2007-04-20 09:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by franC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friendship some time. Continue to be her friend when you feel the time is perfect just come right out and ask her to the movies or something. girls like it when a guy is straight forward. good luck!
2007-04-20 09:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out to the movies or for a bite to eat just as friends and get to know each other afterwards go for a walk and ask her if she would like to do it again some time i think you would get the vibes from there
2007-04-20 09:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by torphins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that if things don't work out, that it won't ruin the friendship you have right now.
If you don't ask her, you'll always be left wondering what would've happened if I had.
2007-04-20 09:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kolyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Balls to the Wall, Seize the day...It's what you don't do that you'll regret...It's sexy to be turned down and not care...try try again.
all cliche all true
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2007-04-20 09:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by ApostlePeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all calm down, gain some confidence in yourself, grow up and just ask her out.....who cares if she turnes you down, what matters is that you grew a set and asked her out, maybe she's waiting for you to do so.
2007-04-20 09:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Alimay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if you like a girl n want to ask her out then be brave enough to ask her without putting on mind what people might think!!
2007-04-20 09:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by shenequa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋