and her date is soooo cutee. what should i do?
2007-04-20 09:20:34 · 33 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has never met the guy before so she doesnt even no his personality. and he hott date brouhgt his firend(the ugly guy for me) but i still wanna go and i kind of want her date...lol. should i go for him
2007-04-20 09:29:42 · update #1
There is more to a guy than his looks. He could be the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Don't knock it til you try it.
2007-04-20 09:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Ugly is - as ugly DOES" -In other words, maybe its time you grew up and considered more about what is on the INSIDE of a person, rather than the outside. To judge another on appearance alone is so unfair, unkind and really, makes you look like a self-centered person yourself.
Some of the least attractive men I've met in my life, are the most wonderful, interesting ones I've ever met. -And MANY of the best looking guys are jerks, self-centered, un-empathetic and uninteresting...THAT'S A FACT.
Be a better person, greet this experience with a positive outlook and kindness, after all, it is just a date, is it not? Don't make it more than it is, "one up" your gal pal and let her know you appreciate her thoughtfulness
Treat it for the life experience it is and move on...And give a little introspection in the future, on how YOU judge others...
Grace
2007-04-20 09:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you saw a picture..that doesn't mean anything some people look a whole lot different in pictures than real life..
second of all you really shouldn't care maybe he's really nice and maybe if you saw him in person he was tired and didn't have a good day or something
like that other person said-how would u like it if someone blew u off because you were ugly
so just try it out, if you don't like him once you get to meet him, then its alright but you might actualy start liking him
go ahead and try it out
besides you'll be with your friend
good luck
no i dont think you should go with him...unless your friend starts liking the guy you're with and the one you like likes you..then it would be okay
2007-04-20 09:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kelsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him anyways.All because he is ugly he could be great in the inside.You may have a great time.You probably wouldn't want to stay at home or try to get a new date last minute.Get over it.It is very self-centered of you to call someone ugly.Would you want someone to say something like that about you?On beauty and the geek they formed great relationships.It may be the same thing here and you already formed a judgement.Be open minded my gosh.
2007-04-20 09:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's up with that...setting you up with an ugly guy and she gets the cute one. But I would just go on the date..you never know he might be fun to hang with. Keep him as a friend if you don't find him attractive but has a great personality
2007-04-20 09:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your date is ugly does he at least have money or a good personality? Tell him it was your friends idea to set you guys up but you kind of are already seeing someone else.
Flirt with your friends date.
2007-04-20 09:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chaun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks doesn't matter that much because we all lose them in the end or as time goes by. Look for wisdom, health, and love. Enjoy the date and make your date feel wonderful. Your friend could see that she has a date with less promise. ~
2007-04-20 09:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with a few of the comments made. You should go out and have a nice date with your friend. Get to know the person that you have already judged and you may be suprised. Have fun!
2007-04-20 09:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by ~~smokee~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA.
Isn't that how it always works out. Your friend set you up with the ugly one and she gets the cute one. Funny.
*Well my suggestion is that you talk to your friend really fast, and let her know that you are going to kick her *** if she ever sets you up with someone ugly again.
.*THEN you tell her that you do not like that guy.
.....THEN....if she acts like a ***** about it, or doesn't help you to find a new HOT guy.....well......that other guy is yours for the taking!!
LMAO...hey really though, if she is going to be a ***** about it, then I would just go steal the guy she was with....I mean they're not dating so technically he's available for the taking.
.......go nuts.
2007-04-20 09:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be *too* shallow; be nice to the guy, get to know him. if at the end of the date you're still not interested, you don't have to go out on another date. *don't* drool over your friend's date in front of your date.
2007-04-20 09:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Megs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋