i went out wit this guy in school,he is really hot! i was shalow enough to go out with him cos @ that tym i rili didnt like him but after that he made me happy so i started likin him. Wel we broke up 3months ago and we just started seeing eachother after the holidays and i might just be thinkin a little more about him so lets get 2the point,do u think it is ok if one thing leads to another and we get back together???? i am scared he myt not treat me right or is this just my insecurity?? do second chances really work????
2007-04-20 08:56:12 · 16 answers · asked by dem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been there
don that
move on
2007-04-20 08:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK if you start to date him but don't go head over hills for him. Dating the same guy 2 times isn't very smart. Sometimes it works out fine but most of the time it doesn't. You break up once there is a change you will break up a second time. Don't be scared...just do what you think is right. If you are scared then don't hook up. You cant have a relationship with doubt and fear in your heart. Just believe in yourself and the relationship and things should hopefully work out for the best.
2007-04-20 09:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by fearofangels1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really just depends on why the breakup happened anyway. I've been there and done that and regretted it. I dated someone I really liked, and we broke it off, then we tried to get back together and the second time around I figured out why it didn't work the first time is because he was a player and I wasn't into that. So I broke it off the second time.
2007-04-20 09:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Sometimes it's better the second time, because you know eachother, and how to treat eachother. But it could be bad depending on him. You guys might play with eachothers emotions, because since you know eachother you know the strengths, weaknesses, fears, and insecurities. So its up to the both of you how well it works.
2007-04-20 09:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never really know if a second chance is going to work until you try it. There might be some things he can't get past that happened the 1st time you dated that won't let the 2nd time work. But you never know. Give it a try if your heart is really in it.
2007-04-20 08:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Amy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES totally im a guy and my girl friend dumped me last saturday and we just got back together at the skating ring last monday we are going twice as better as we wer going before
BUT dont be shy or he will drop u quicker than a hot pan
2007-04-20 09:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let HIM give it a try not u. guys usually use the girl's emotions to get the sex while girls lose their self-respect and feel like they're abused without knowing how to stop a relationship or a try that was wrong from the beginning.
2007-04-20 09:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they do....sometimes they don....
i wud say just give it a try.....if it doesn work out u can always move on to another guy who will make u happy...
one plus side to datin ur ex is that u both already kno each other or atleast kno a lot about each other...so u don hv to feel uncomfortable or worry about anythin else....
2007-04-20 09:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by ANONYMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see anything wrong with that. But be cautious. There always is a second chance for everyone.
2007-04-20 09:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does for the guy, he gets the sex, not for the girl, she wants a relationship
2007-04-20 09:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you broke up with him then definately dont cuz remember you broke up with him for a reason.
if you guys just sorta broke up, then yeah go for it!
good luck!
<3
2007-04-20 09:00:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋