You enjoy chatting online witha person, but then they send you a pic that you find most unattractive. What do you say when they ask you what you think of their pic?
2007-04-20 08:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by SusanSays 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, at least you know ITS REALLY THEM! loL...cause then they would have sent you a drop dead GQ model one. if it helps, i met my boyfriend of over a year online. he sent me a really bad picture but we totally connected and even looked at the picture for the longest trying my best to convince myself that he wasnt that horrible looking! haha...when we finally met! omg!!! he was waaaaay better than the picture i received! Til this day he doesnt look his best in pictures, but in person...let me telll u :) ! i say...go for it if he's a nice person u connect with and maybe it just might be that he's not the photogenic type and just managed to capture his bad side! loL...good luck!
2007-04-20 08:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always answer by saying nice picture, but some people really insist in knowing what you really think about them, it's quite embarassing, so i just keep saying that they look nice, and move to another subject.
you can't tell somebody that he's ugly, and people judge beauty differently, for example, somebody can say that i'm beautiful while somebody else won't like me at all. but let's say that you are chatting to somebody ugly, what will happen to this person, if everyone will see his picture and block him, isn't it just immoral?
if the person is nice, dont care about appearance, because in some cases, you wont enjoy a conversation with a handsome person as much as you enjoy it with an "ugly" person!
2007-04-20 08:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You send them an 'lol' and say "No, don't send me a joke pic from a website, send me your real photo...I know you can look like that!" That way, you haven't called them ugly, you didn't egg them on and they get the idea you don't particularly care for their true looks, as most people only put their best pics online.(scary!)
2007-04-20 08:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
are u chatting with them for their looks or their personality? well i personally think that no body is "ugly". everyone has atleast one good feature on their face that makes it a face. Genetics made us. it is not fair to say to someone that they r ugly...it is not their fault....being ugly or attractive is just a made concept because of media. Everyone is beautiful. Everybody has a heart. well to answer your question, chose a feature that you like and then respond on that....
2007-04-20 08:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Legant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen, and I was honest. I said I'm sorry but your not my type psychically. I think it's better than lying.
2007-04-20 09:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by his.grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is an internet relationship and they know nothing about you, like your phone number or address, just fade away quietly. Don't hurt his feelings.
2007-04-20 08:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully you can be the first to reply and just say "I got your pic. thanks." But if they ask you, then you could just say that you were picturing them looking like something else, like "I thought you'd have longer hair" then leave it at that.
2007-04-20 08:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea ive had this happen, just say thats a nice picture, as your not really complimenting them but the picture :D
2007-04-20 08:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by kid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't. I either go to a different site or logoff..I know that sounds shallow, but it is what it is in this societ, you know?
2007-04-20 09:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest. let them know that they don't appear to be your type but you like chatting so let's leave it at that.
2007-04-20 08:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋