I have discovered my boyfriend's myspace password. I noticed he's been talking to this girl, and I wanted to see what they were always messaging eachother. I realized in the end the conversations are so bland, and boring, nothing is really going on between them. Now, when I'm around my boyfriend, I feel guily for accessing his myspace account and I more importantly, I feel uncomfortable around him now. What should I do?
2007-04-20 08:26:41 · 32 answers · asked by BINYAMIN D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it. Serisouly its no big deal unless you make it into a big deal. You were jealous and you acted on your feelings. Learn from your mistakes and don't do it again! If you tell him he will get upset and feel hurt that you invaded his privacy so don't tell him! If you can't get over your guilty feeling even after you realize "Hey I learned a lesson now its time to move on!" then maybe you should talk to him the.
But seriosusly just learn from your mistake don't hurt him by telling him.
Opening up will make you feel better and less guilty but it will make him feel worse and betrayed.
2007-04-20 08:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply accept that you were wrong and that your trust for each other is stronger than any little suspicion. If you feel that suspicion is ever stronger than your trust, you need to reevaluate your relationship and fix the problem or the relationship won't last.
Heath
2007-04-20 08:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A suspicious mind can lead you to trouble or to enlightenment. You could admit what you done and ask his understanding and forgiveness..or you can put it in the past and trust him until he gives you reason not to
2007-04-20 08:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel uncomfortable cause you feel guilty. I would try to move on and not say anything, if it's really going to bug you then tell him and apologize.
2007-04-20 08:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ben's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're dumb for invading his privacy.. Second, the only way to try to fix it is by telling him and working with him to come to a conclusion.. He's your only way out of this guilt now..Good luck!
2007-04-20 08:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just tell him about it and let him know what you think about him talking to some girl.
2007-04-20 08:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, tell him or you have to forget about it. it was a stupid jelous thing that turned out to be nothing, so i would just say forget it and trust him more. if you do it again, then...you guys need to talk
2007-04-20 08:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by misstinney4933@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say him tht u accidently found out his myspace password when u were trying jst 2 guess wat might be his password ....... then tell him 2 change his password ........ he ll definitely ask u tht did u see those conversation say No .......... nd say u felt bad wen u unlock his acount nd ll not do it again
2007-04-20 08:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rockd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sneaking. If you feel you can't trust and have to be sneaky, then you need to let him go so he can be w/someone who he can trust.
2007-04-20 08:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease your guilt by telling him what you did and deal with the consequences.
2007-04-20 08:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋