my step dad has always been daddy since i was 4, until my biological dad came back into thepicture. now theyre both really special to me and i love them both...how do i decide who gives me away or gets the daddy daughter dance????
2007-04-20 07:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You can have them both walk you down and have 2 father daughter dances.
Or you can just ask them. Tell them that they are both really important to you and you would like _____ to walk you down and _______ to do the first Father-daughter dance.
They will respect your wishes and be honored to do it just for you!
2007-04-20 07:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet, this is really your call but my advice is that the man who brought you up is the man to give you a way. He knows you and loves you and has for always.
Your real dad has a place too, but he knows what that is, trust me. He knows he's position here and if he's worth his salt he will stand back and still be part of your live without expecting too much. You will all live happily with the situation and the rest of your life.
The very best for your wedding and I hope I have read both your dad's right/
2007-04-20 08:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was sort of in the same boat but my dad was around a little more. I had them both walk me down the aisle and it turned out great!!! They were both so proud. Then I danced with both of them, first my biological dad and then my stepdad. What I did was I had THEM pick out the song we would dance to and it was a surprise to me. That gave them a chance to express to me how they felt. They each called the dj and set it up so I wouldn' t know until the dance.
It is not fair to you or to them if you have to choose and you don't want to. I say involve them both!!!!!!!
2007-04-20 07:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ambre B 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL SINCE UR STEPDAD HAS BEEN IN THE
PICTURE SINCE U WERE 4 THEN HE SHOULD
WALK U DOWN THE ISLE AND POSSIBLY HAVE
UR BIOLOGICAL FATHER AT THE ALTER TO HAND
U OVER TO UR FIANCE. AND AS FOR THE DAD
AND DAUGHTER DANCE BOTH SHOULD HAVE
A DANCE WITH THE BRIDE. THAT IS HOW I DID
IT WITH MY DAUGHTERS SWEET 16... GOOD
LUCK AND BEST WISHES.............
2007-04-20 08:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have both men escort you down the aisle or you can have one walk you halfway and have the other take you the rest of the way.
You can also have two dances - you can dance with both OR choose one song and ask everyone to dance in their honor.
Good luck
2007-04-20 08:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister-in-law had them both giver her away and she also danced with them both. For her bio dad she danced to "Daddy'd little girl" and her step she danced "You got a friend in me" from toy story. It was really sweet.... hope that helped
2007-04-20 07:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by mhireangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love AmbreB's answer-I think you and your guests would beso touched by that!
2007-04-20 09:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋