I haven't met my ex for about three months,, then one week ago he showed up on a party and we talked, danced...and it turned to kisses...more kisses..=S He just wanted more and more.
It felt nice that time but we haven't talked ever sinc that happend, I wonder if he regrets it or just wanted me for one-night? He even sent sms before the party and wanted to meet me there.. But now he hasn't contact me at all.
So what do You think??
2007-04-20 07:07:36 · 6 answers · asked by tess_88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Tess 88. Sounds pretty horrible to me, and I can only apologise on behalf of the dismal male sex to which I gladly, but occassionally shamedly, belong. I would guess, after many years of experience, that he was, and I am sorry if this hurts and I am hoping for your sake that I am wrong, basically, marking his territory. We men are, deep down, sometimes not very deep, children. Children sometimes leave certain toys untouched for ages, until, another child shows interest in that toy, and then, suddenly, that toy is their favourite! Then they will play up merry hell, and grab that toy and play with it for a while, until, the other child has left or moved on to another toy. After that, the toy gets neglected until another child shows interest in it, and the cycle continues. Perhaps this lad thought somebody else was showing interest in you, I don't know. But I know this: If you don't set ground rules, and lines that you make clear you will not accept being crossed, you will be walked over all your life. Trust me, us blokes LIKE to know where the line is. Good luck to you, and really, don't let yourself be messed about like this. He, and others like him, will not respect you for it.
2007-04-20 07:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that has happened to me MANY times in the past. (I'm married now) Men don't want girlfriends or commitments when they are below the age of 40. Not true for all men, but out of the MANY men that I've encountered, this has been true. The guy just wanted YOU KNOW WHAT and that's it. He put on his charm for you and kissed and hugged you, but that's all he wanted and that's all he's going to want for a really long time. Sorry.. you really have to move on from it and realize that it will happen again sometime in your life, you just have to be cautious of it.
2007-04-20 07:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by bloodelf_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he got what he wanted and now is done with you.
He knew you would be easy and you didn't do anything to prove him wrong. Thrown in the trash can like a used....
2007-04-20 07:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a sure thing...he got what he wanted...now its over. Move on. Stop trying to figure it out, because there is nothing to figure out. He wanted sex, he got it. End of story.
2007-04-20 07:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a booty sms call. LOL
2007-04-20 07:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by delnquent24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wanted some sexual intimacy, and there you were, willing to give it to him.
2007-04-20 07:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋