So here's the thing. I had four goals when I went to college.
1. get a degree
2. get a good job
3. get a girlfriend
4. learn how to ask out a "random girl"
I will soon be graduating with a degree. I have a SUPER awesome job for after I graduate. I had a steady girlfriend but she dumped me to go on a summer vacation with her ex (lol). No hard feelings on my part. So I've completed 1-3. My last goal was always there so that, in case I'm 50 and single, I have previously learned how to ask girls out.
So, my plan is to go up to a few random girls and tell them that "my last uncompleted college goal is to go on a random date with a cute girl I've never talked to before". Then ask the girl out to something simple like lunch. I know it seems kinda stupid, but I have a huge problem with telling lies (I hate when other people do it).
MY QUESTION IS: WILL THIS WORK?
2007-04-20 06:53:51 · 15 answers · asked by fdsafd s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Good idea, I'll try it tomorow.
2007-04-20 06:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure. Girls love it when a guys plays the "Im pathetic, will you go out with me now?" card!!!!!
All Im saying is, you might want to start the conversation off with something else... Like "Hey, how are you doing?" THEN go into your "goals"....maybe ask them what their goals at school are, listen, and then when they ask yours, you can tell them that youve met a couple of them, but not the last - and leave out the goal about a steady girlfriend that's bumped you - hardly worth bragging about!
Hope that helps.
To those that give this guy shyte for not a religion question - LOVE is a religion too!
2007-04-20 07:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, this could work. It's all about the law of averages. Some may say "no thanks," but if you ask enough girls, someone is bound to say yes. I wouldn't use the word "random," as any girl you ask may feel unimportant, and you'll fare better if you give her a sincere compliment about something that makes her special. Good luck :)
By the way, is this some sort of social experiment to see how answers vary in different categories? In this forum, it is better to give that receive. Pay it forward--start answering questions (or do you already under a different profile?).
2007-04-20 07:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by alcachofita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others who asked why you posted your question here, but still...
You said you don't like to lie, but how would that be a lie?!? Isn't that exactly what you said you wanted to do? So, if that's your goal, and that's what you tell a random girl, then how would it be a lie?!?
Anyway, coming from a female, I would be flattered and would think it was adorable if someone said that to me. Just might work....
Good luck!!!!
2007-04-20 07:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try it. Telling a girl you picked her at random is a total insult to her femininity. She's waiting to hear all the good reasons you had for being attracted to her. She NEEDS to hear this so she can assure herself that you're the kind of sensitive guy who appreciates her as a person, as a woman, even as a raving beauty. The last thing she wants to hear is that you pulled a name from a hat and it was hers. Don't do it unless you're prepared to seriously hurt her feelings!
2007-04-20 07:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Diogenes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. You might find some that will agree to a date because they think that the story is cute, then again you might run into some who think it's just a line.
2007-04-20 06:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by photogrl262000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that, they might think your a slut. I would just go to a place you usually hang out , find a girl your attracted to , and just start a conversation - which doesn't take a college degree :) It's not hard, after you start talking to her and you think you might want to take her out somewhere - ASK!
2007-04-20 07:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely YES!
2007-04-20 06:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... Random girls are a lot different.. With the aid of recreational drugs, you may find success... If that's not your cup of tea, you must be confident. Go up to a girl and smile. Talk to her like she's a client. And make her smile back... That's it~ I prefer the drug method... always a lot less fuss.
2007-04-20 06:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the question is, do you want someone to like you for your degree or your job? or do you want someone to like you for who u are?
you dont know get to know anyone if you ask the superficial questions. concentrate on selling yourself by your attributes and character.
2007-04-20 07:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by #1 Always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me.
2007-04-20 06:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋