i am one of those girls that have a very flat chest... i am farly pretty but i have trouble keeping a boyfriend. i asked my friend why i have trouble keeping boyfriend and she said it is cause i dont have big boobs! why do most guys like girls with big boobs?!?!?!
2007-04-20 04:51:40 · 19 answers · asked by iamagulliblemoron 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
i blame playboy....
2007-04-20 05:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by lexie 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Trust me, not all guys like big boobs, and the ones who care that much about the size of a girl's chest is NOT the kind of guy you want to be with. I have a very large chest, and my bf says that he used to prefer tiny boobs, but he loves me and thinks I am perfect and he really doesn't care about my chest size. Also, good guys don't really want sluts, and with my chest, anything lower than a turtleneck and people would whisper lots of mean things! So be thankful with what you have...
But for all you girls who are saying big boobs are gross, SHUT UP. Just like you can't help having a small chest, I can't help having a big chest. And it's not like I show them off... I don't want to! They are always fully covered. And it sucks to have to do that, but I don't want the unwanted attention. Don't put down girls with big chests... we have feelings too..
2007-04-20 06:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Reanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt that the reason you have trouble keeping a boyfriend is related you your breast size. They knew you were "flat-chested" when they met you right? Maybe they are just flighty and don't know a good thing when they see it. (This is particularly true with younger guys.) However, if this is the case, good riddance to them!
Anyway, there are lots of guys that like smaller chests and there are a lot of guys that don't really care what size bra a woman wears. Of course, there are jerks out there that only care about such superficial things. (Stay away from those guys, don't worry you'll be able to recognize them.)
Stop obsessing about your chest, sooner or later you'll find a guy that appreciates you for you. Besides, you wouldn't want a guy who only like you for your boobs, would you?
2007-04-20 05:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by eunosgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excellent question! As a guy I don't get this modern infatuation with a womans chest. I may be a rare guy, but I think a girls legs are are such a turn on. A pair of sexy sleek, silky legs are what keep me coming back for more. When a hot woman walks by, my eyes are always drawn to their eyes first, (don't want to get caught checking her out) Then when I get a chance....I take a gaze at her legs.
The most inimate moments are when a girl wraps her legs around me.
What do you like physically in your boyfreind? What do girls usually like ?
2007-04-23 16:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like big boobs because it's more for them to hold on to. I personally don't care about the size of a woman's boobs. If I like a girl I'm going to like a girl despite the size of her boobs.
2007-04-20 07:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by cooldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having small boobs! There are allot of guys out there who go for girls with smaller boobs ( So please don't get fake ones!!!) Your friend isn't being very friendly is she??? But anyway... to answer your question, I'm not sure but, it might be something to do with nature, I mean, women feed baby's from their boobs and if they have bigger boobs they look more womanly and can feed baby's... :-P Either that or men just watch lots of XXX rated stuff. Who knows? Anyway I'm sure you'll find a boyfriend. If your that self concious about them try a Wonderbra
:-)
2007-04-20 05:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, I'm not into blonde girls, but I really appreciate big breasts. A somewhat big, shapely butt (but not fat or cellulite scarred), toned by exercise is desirable but not necessary. Otherwise, I love long dark hair, and slightly tanned (but not artificially brown/orange or overly tanned in general) skin is nice, but I don't believe any woman, at least based on their appearance is "exotic", that's just silly these days, unless you live in the midwest or something.
2016-04-01 10:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your friends opinion not of boys .
Guys like the girls with big boobs , but this does't mean they don't like small boobs . I personally like girls with DEVELOPING boobs not too large. Small boobs will be OK than tooo big boobs...
2007-04-21 05:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you must be dating shallow men. You don't need men like that!!!
I do not have big boobs but I have dated guys who made me feel like I was less of a woman because I have small boobs (but my boobs are very balanced with the rest of my body)....I even dated a guy who preferred to make love to me with my shirt on *ouch*...that made me feel so bad about myself. I went years thinking that I was deformed. I do have great legs, great butt, pretty face, etc. (so I've been told many times)...but because of my small boobs, I used to not date guys who were interested in me - I feared getting intimate. Of course, I don't think like that anymore.
Great news is that I have also met guys who loved my small boobs. There are @$$ men, leg men, *insert other body part* men out there. Not ALL men like big boobs. You just have to find the right one that can love every inch of your body the way it is.
I think media has brainwashed some men into thinking that big boobs are sexy. I think proportionate bodies are sexy and believe it or not...I've met men who genuinely feel the same way.
2007-04-20 05:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have another question posted stating that you are 15 with a size double D bra, and on this question you state that you are flat chested. People on this site need to know that you are not truthful with your questions.
2007-04-20 09:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by millineumlaura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also flat chested, but I've never had problems getting or keeping a boyfriend....maybe it's your self confidence?
2007-04-20 06:59:00 · answer #11 · answered by jo1982sh 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋