2007-04-20 02:43:10 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look for men who have:
honesty
maturity
goals
respect
loyalty
These are important for a good relationship....
2007-04-20 02:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we are so desperate to find the right man that we don't stop to take a look at what may be right in front of our very eyes and tend to miss out on what's been right there all along so stop looking so hard and let Mr. right find you because unfortunately we don't have a looser radar. Good Luck!
2007-04-20 09:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out for the right guy, coz trust me, he's out there somewhere. Everyone's right guy (or girl) is out there somewhere. Don't just settle for second best, coz close enough just isn't good enough. Find some people that aren't loosers, and that are worth your respect and that you actually think are decent people to sourround yourself with and you will soon learn who is decent and who is a looser. Good luck, hope everything works out!
2007-04-20 09:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because losers appear to be so much more 'fun' and indeed they are. They party and dance and laugh and carry on, they drink too much and make fools out of themselves in all kinds of ways. They are, in short, a whole lot more fun.
Meanwhile, the nice guys are at work, or studying, or working on their futures to find stability and reward in what they do and what they are and can become. Trust me, most nice guys have a hint of 'boring' in them, and most girls don't want anything to do with that, they'd rather have the fun.
2007-04-20 09:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once Dalai Lama said
" If people doesnt treat you like you want , you d better look at yourself than complain about it"
If good guys are not around you , the problem is in your territory.
Dont be offended. plz.
Maybe you are attractive but too picky or too shy.
Maybe you are smart , but too cynical guys are scared to be around you.
Maybe you are just sitting and waiting olny dreaming of a prince listening " someday my prince will come"
Is one THESE describing you?
then try to do something positive
Good luck.
anyway I AM also like you but not always.
good luck to me , too.
2007-04-20 09:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fist need to stop looking for the same things in different guys. Perhaps that is why you keep picking losers. My Girlfriend wasted 22 years chasing those "bad boy types" and could never figure out why they turned out to be such losers. She finally figured uot that the reason they look rough and crusty is because they are rough and crusty.
2007-04-20 09:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will. it takes alot of time. i found losers all my life, until one day when my husband came along. he was the complete opposite of everyone else that i chose. i think you have to search for someone thats totally different from the same ol guys that your use to dating. you'll see trying to date someone that you never expected might be the one for you.
2007-04-20 09:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by bella-d46 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hjust try hold out for a while until the right guy come a long...dont just settle on whatever come sniffing your way
2007-04-20 09:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and approach it from a different way. Don't look too hard, you'll know when the right one comes your way.
2007-04-20 09:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by chukx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't associate yourself with losers, surround yourself with positive successful people and see what a diffrence this makes.
2007-04-20 09:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋