I'm searching for new ideas to drive my boyfriend even wilder in bed. What drives you totally wild in bed? What makes you feel best? What do you really really like in sex? I want to give my boyfriend the best night ever.
2007-04-20 01:06:33 · 13 answers · asked by Micia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First let say this.....I am not a guy and I know that you wanted some answers from the guys. I hope you don't mind. And if I have intruded I am sorry.
First and formost make sure you use protection and take things slow that night...enjoy the time and passion you will share togethr as one.
I have found that if you ask him his desires( dont hint around just come right out with it ) and tell him yours also this could be a great experieance for you both !!
Start off with a nice dinner and nake sure you have message oil on hand ,another nice touch is aroma therapy, candle lite and soft romantic music. Wear a sexy nightie, guys love it ( meet him at the door wearing it) Guys are very visual....that will get him going for one thing !! This alone will get the wheels spinning in his head :)
It will be very exciting for you to plan this and he will be in awwww of you when you answer the door in your sexy nightie !!!
Men/ Guys enjoy oral sex !! Try the position of you being on top, they love that too !! You take control, talk to him tell him how sexy he is and how you feel about him. You have to admitt guys like their egos pumped up as well as us ladies.
Anal sex...........for me that is a exit only department ( did it one time and it hurt ) however you maybe ok with it
just make sure if you go that route....use a whole lot of lubercation and relax !!
However, if this is something you can do and you are use to it, then go for it !!! I think gently is the key objective to this.
I personally dis-like porno, but if this is something you do not mind and he likes it watch it together. Great starting tool for your night. ( take the bubble bath first together, with lighted candles in the bathroom) Then the movie and after the dinner
Oh dear God, I have given you step by step instructions's here
Just set the mood from the very start and this very well maybe the night of passion that you and him has ever had.
Ask him his desires, needs, wants and fantasy. Be sure to tell him yours also.
You need to be satisfied just as well as he does, and guess what, he has probaley thought about the same for you and maybe was not sure how to go about it.
Wishing you, Joy, Peacce and Happiness and a Night of Passion Like You and Him have never experianced !!!
Melanie
2007-04-22 16:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an idea about what you can do to spice up that romantic evening between the both of you. Turn down all the lights. Light a bunch of candles. If you use scented candles, try not to make the scent too strong. Get him in the tub and wash him all over and give him a good rub down. Wear a naughty lingerie and play something light and romantic. He should be able to take it from there. Make sure there is at least 15 minutes of foreplay and enjoy. ;)
2007-04-20 08:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a book out there called, "The Multi-Orgasmic Man". It's written by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams. It's a great read. You and him both will benefit from it.
2007-04-20 08:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Scotte_B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'd be really cool to surprise him with several of your friends as exciting new additions to your sexual repetoire. Remember to pick the cuter ones who'll be least likely to exhibit any hangups when it comes to getting down.
Don't be afraid to let him know that you're aware of his desire for other women in addition to yourself. Just reassure him that you want him to have the most fun humanly possible, and that you're working on new recruits, 24-7!
2007-04-20 08:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by omnisource 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start off with a BJ. Maybe some whipcream?
2007-04-20 08:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by jon_8ball 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking for my husband on this one, some girl on girl action always drives them completely insane!
2007-04-20 08:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tie him up and read poetry to him all night.
2007-04-20 08:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
although you may not like, but rimming springs to mind.tell him to shower first though
2007-04-20 08:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Knock out BJ, and anal.
2007-04-20 08:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by CSM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you have aids that'll spice it up
2007-04-20 09:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋