Guys generally feel more comfortable approaching girls who are alone. It takes more daring to approach groups of girls. So when he does make that bold move and approach 2 girls dining and talking busily, what do the girls feel? Do they feel lack of privacy and feel intruded?
2007-04-20 01:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by senthil k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they are waiting for a guy to pick them up as well. And it all depends if the interrupter is handsome, charming, funny, entertaining, foots the bill etc.
2007-04-20 01:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he scoots up a chair for himself, yes, that is rude. If he is coming on strong, yes. If he has his hands on the backs of ur chair or leaning up on the back of the chair, yes, very intrusive. If he is being friendly and approaches both of us, just chit chat, then it's cool. If the girl is interested, then she'll probably flirt back. Otherwise I say, don't lay it on too thick. Keep it light and watch their body language. If not good, move on quickly.
2007-04-20 01:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are invading their privacy and this is extremly annoying. Picture this: you are sitting home at your dinner table and a stranger walks in your front door and joins you for dinner. Would you welcome this intruder?
If you see ladies out for dinner and one of them catches your eye, the best thing to do is ask their waiter what they may be drinking and send some drinks over to the table.
2007-04-20 01:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel it was an intrusion for anybody to interrupt someone when they were having a meal. If a girl was standing at a bar, then fine, make small talk, but if she is sitting down, involved in converstaion with her friends, then be polite and don't interrupt.
2007-04-20 01:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by helen d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when I'm alone at a coffee place it's because I want to get some studying done... so I wouldn't appreciate the company. Libraries are another thing tho.. it's because we all share the tables in libraries (school, grad school libraries and even public ones)
2016-04-01 10:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If the group of women you are apporaching is sitting in an open circle, then chances are you are safe and they may be receptive to your advances. Best thing is you try to interact and flirt with the entire group.
On the other hand, if they are sitting in a closed circle, chances are, they don't want to be disturbed and are not open to new membership in their social circle.
2007-04-20 01:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is handsome then she is more likely to allow this and not send him off.
when a man approaches women in this case she cant judge him by any thing but his looks because she don't know him. So to pull this off you should be handsome and charming with your first sentence.
2007-04-20 01:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....depending on a few things: if we r in a private conversation and the guy walks up then i might get a little mad yes, and if we r not then i might not get as mad. if the guyy is nice looking and not to old looking then i MIGHT b ok wit that if i was not taken. and yes i would b sorda a bold move to do that.
2007-04-20 01:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by sassysammy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah my friends and I don't get angry. We hope like hell that the stranger will pick up the tab and pay it.
2007-04-20 01:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it annoying unless he turns out to be someone i'm interested in, but generally i think it's rude. Especially if he comes up only intending to talk to one of us, even RUDER!
2007-04-20 01:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋