i kinda dislike her lately. i want her outta my life for a while
untill i know my self but i cant just go there and tell her that
she;ll ask y and how when what did i do then im gonna have to be honest
then we'll fight then never see each other again
i want to tell her that " dont talk to me. atleast for a while"
but in a nice line that doesnt make her hate me
2007-04-20 00:31:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont wanna break up but i dont wanna be with her now i need some space
cause i feel like shes using me
untill i found out otherwise i need my space
i dont wanna outta my life for ever
2007-04-20 00:41:45 · update #1
she thinks everyone is ok. i cant just come outta the blue and say we need a break i need to start a fake fight or something
2007-04-20 00:58:35 · update #2
The best way to do that is to be honest. Starting a "fake" fight is not the way plus it is very immature! You need to just go to her and explain it to her like you did us and tell her that you feal that you need to work on you and find yourself until you can be with anyone! Trust me in the end you will be glad that you were honest and didnt lie to her.If she finds out that you picked a fight and lied that will make her not talk to you anymore. GOOD LUCK!!!! :)
2007-04-20 06:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about " I'm going through something right now and I just need a little alone time... I knew you would understand since we're close... I'll call you when this thing I 'm dealing with has passed" It's sound vague but still makes her think that you care about her.She will want to help you but say that you have to deal with it alone. Good luck to you
2007-04-20 07:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Pony dude's girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinna would work to tell her you aren't the same people you once were. You need time alone and there's a possibility you won't be getting back together. Nver know where life leads. But don't sugar coat it or lie.
2007-04-20 07:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by *~Angelic ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman,call her for a talk and tell her politely that u need sometime to urself. If she's a lady that has her pride,she'll let u be though it wont be easy for her emotionly cos once ur feelings die and she doesnt know,anything she does cant please u like b4.Anyhow you do it will hurt her so it's better you let her know than deceiving her.
2007-04-20 08:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by amii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth! why is it that you dislike her lately? at least she'll understand and you both wont be wasting your time with each other for the moment...
if you want to try new things, go ahead; they say its love if you come back
2007-04-20 07:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by y0ungdan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first line - the question line - is to the point and non-abrasive. She may get wild but that's to be expected since she's not really doing anything wrong.
2007-04-20 07:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a woman, myself, i don't see any way that you can tell her anything of the sort without her wondering, maybe even asking 'why'...she is not going to like hearing that you want to 'know yourself', no matter how nicely you put it.
i think that you need to be honest with yourself and decide if it is worth getting to know yourself or not...coz any way you look at it, she is not going to like to hear that
2007-04-20 07:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For god sake you either want her or you don't , whatever has happened you either want to work it out or you don't. If your going to break up don't do it slow while she sits alone still thinking your together.
2007-04-20 08:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by superglue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to break up i suggest u just break up. dont sit there and be like dont talk to me for a while. then it seems like you want her to wait for you till you "figure yourself out" honestly just dump her so shes not wasting her time anymore.
2007-04-20 07:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't zig zag with your justification.. Just tell her straight how you feel.. She may be upset for a while but will accept your reasoning eventually.. Be direct!!!
2007-04-20 07:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋