She carries a condom in her bag to work and she also brings her bag to my place when she stays overnight. The thing is I always have condoms at my place and when we started having sex we didn't even use one, and now I use them on and off. Some time ago I found out she was having an emotional relationship with a coworker, but she denied ever having sex with him. When I brought it up, she said she'd carrie a condom in case I did't have one, and that made her feel better. It still bothers me. I don't understand why she keeps doing it.
2007-04-20 00:16:29 · 10 answers · asked by Andrew J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's the same exact condom, then u have nothing to worry about. Mark it with a pen and see if it's the same one. I think the emotional relationship might be a red flag. U gotta communicate w/her and see what's up with that. A coworker is a little too close for comfort.
2007-04-20 00:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very well prepared woman to me. She carries it in case something "pops up". LOL. You can not control her or be with her to "guard" her every moment of every day so you can either put it out of your mind and move past it and dismiss it, or if it really disturbs you to a large degree, end the relationship. Also, as far as the coworker goes, you should realize that an emotional relationship is FAR FAR more dangerous than a physical one. If she were just having sex with the guy, you shouldn't truly be worried and be thankful that she atleast has the good sense to use protection...but when feelings and emotions are involved...it's anybodies guess as to what will happen next. In other words...they will eventually (if not already) carry the emotional relationship (if in deed that is what it is) to the physical level (unless he is impotent) so, you can prepare yourself for the inevitable.
2007-04-20 00:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by mzadamz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so let's summarise this for you, shall we.
She's banging "Mr. Emotional" at work, yet you only use a condom with her "on and off". You really aren't the brightest candle on the birthday cake, are you.
Get yourself checked for STD's, pronto. And use your big head a little more in future.
2007-04-20 00:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You two aren't a permanent item, are you? I get the feeling she's playing the field a bit more than you want to admit.
2007-04-20 00:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I hate to tell you she is straight up cheating on you with her co-worker. I think you should dumb her and go get you a real lady you could trust!
2007-04-20 00:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not likely doing it at work, unless she works at a very strange place.
2007-04-20 00:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by chante 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this one. You just dont want to see it for what it is. Sounds like she is cheating.
2007-04-20 00:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's getting "it" somewhere else... and I would get away as quickly as possible... as long as get check for STD's as soon as possible!! Scary!
2007-04-20 00:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by PrettyMama982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants a bit more on the side my friend :-P
2007-04-20 00:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is having an affair
2007-04-20 00:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Me! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋