Ok, recently i've been answering alot of questions on here, and I see a bunch of girls saying that guys are just using girls to get into their pants, life is all about sex, etc. This is not true! Sure there are those types of guys out there, but why do those guys give us guys a bad name? Everyone's got there preference, ill admit it, ima boob guy, but that doesn't mean the only reason im talking too you is to get into your pants! Really, what's the deal?
2007-04-20 00:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah I was woundering that too. Why do we get judged to be just like all those perverted men. Just the other day my girlfriend looked at me and said "men" as if we all are the same. Yeah when it comes to us actually haveing sex yeah I want in your pants but only when my girlfriend say yeah you can get some if you want. other then that I'm just trying to get friends someone to talk to, so what if they are hott, fat, black who cares they are someone to talk to, I got my girl.
2007-04-20 00:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with this question.. the statement that always get's my ire up is why are ALL men.. or things like that.
I do agree that there are many men out there that do these things, however there are just as many men that are perfectly polite, and have no other agenda's.
I will definatly have to keep an eye on this post and see if any women out there, or men, can answer this.. 'cause I too have seen a lot of the men bashing
2007-04-20 00:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls see the message that guys are a walking hormone everywhere. Magazines, tv, in person, ex boyfriends. Every girl at some point has felt like a guy was in it just for sex. We're just so jaded. So use to guys expecting that. There are some who aren't but few and far between. If ur not one of them, some girl would be very lucky!
2007-04-20 00:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe age and experience is your deal. You see, it would depend upon these two factors as to the responses you get. For me, I've moved beyond that concept (don't mean to sound arrogant it's the way i see it) and i see that men are as rich and diverse as women just in different ways. Further, categorising men into two labels: pervs or sex addicts is unjust and simply ridiculous. Just ask away and sift through the crap to get to the real answers and there hopefully, you will see that there is a few good women out there too. *smiles* and btw that was not intended as flirtatious but merely friendly lol. People can take things way too seriously at times!
2007-04-20 00:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the single life is a dog eat dog world but not all men are considered perverts..Your just at the wrong places or too obvious when checking out the boobs....work on being more discreet..
2007-04-20 00:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on.. be honest.. Every man like to get into the pants of every woman they fancy.. That desire is in their genes and you cannot avoid the feelings..
However most men are cultured and brought up with values.. So, although they desire, they resist the temtation..
And of course there are a few, who just want to spill their seeds wherever they can find and get.
It's time women understand the paradigm of men and act accordingly.
2007-04-20 00:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only difference between a pervert and a regular guy is the pervert is actually bold enough to try and make things happen.
2007-04-20 00:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just people generalising from a few extreme examples. Similar to how some people expect all Muslims to be terrorists, or all people in the navy to be homosexuals.
It's known as induction:
-I observe one sex-obsessed man
therefore...
-All men are sex-obsessed
2007-04-20 00:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by firefromabustedgun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was right on your side there, all the way until "I'm a boob guy". LOL
If you want to stand out from the jerks, you're going the wrong way about it with remarks like that, mate.
2007-04-20 00:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The ladies only remember the "bad egg" guys. The guys only remember the girls who said no.
Even if there is an attraction, it's the rule.
2007-04-20 00:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋