I fell for my friend. Not just any friend. The friend that happens to live 7 zillion miles away in Holland. He feels the same about me so its not one sided HOWEVER, we are both in our early 20's. So what do i do with this? Do i give it up? And if not how do i pursue it? We've been close friends for a good 2 years now.
2007-04-20 00:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sanctum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say that both of you are in your early twenties, so chances are that you don't own your own apartment but you are renting and are still trying to figure out what to do with the rest of your life. If this is the case there is no reason to stay where you are. You can always move over to Holland and start a future there. Go after your dreams there. If true love comes your way, don't let it pass you by, you never know he might be the one you have been waiting for. Talk to him and find out exactly how he feels about you. Ask him that he should be honest and how he would feel about the fact that you might be moving all the way around the world to be with him. And if he is not sure, just stay good friends.
2007-04-20 00:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with being just friends??? I bet cha things would be different IF you were around one another 24/7 365. It would not be for the best either. A true friend IS RARE to find anymore. You both are just kids. I do not mean that in a bad way, and you will see later on that if there is to be something more to develope it will on its own. Do not rush into anything in life. NEVER grow UP, just GROW WISER. Good luck.
2007-04-20 07:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you both can deal with a long distance relationship then go for it but understand there is a huge distance between you two and in order to make this work you both need to compromise and be honest. If you want to pursue this talk to him and see if you two can find some sort of middle meeting ground to meet and get together
2007-04-20 07:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh the Dutch. My ex was Dutch. :)
Long distance relationships are very difficult even when you're in the same state. Clear across the contenient is a bit too far for visiting and keeping the fire burning.
Unless one of you wants to move to the other person's country, you should just stay friends and date other people.
Lust globally, date locally!
2007-04-20 07:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there is a will there is way. if u both have same feelings for eachother and found in these 2 years of relation that there are things that common between you and can live a happy life without much trouble then you should continue it and try to find the best possiblities to make your way to give this relation a reality.
2007-04-20 07:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by javed a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen. When I went over to her country I realised she wasn't the same person in her own country. You need to be with eachother for a while in both places for a while if you can, then take it from there.
2007-04-20 07:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't totally give up, but if neither of you are willing to travel and make it happen for real it's a back-burner item until there is no doubt.
2007-04-20 07:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell!!!
Go on with your live, you are still young!!
And if it's meant to be, it'll be!!!!
Strong's!!
2007-04-20 07:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by CillieM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the right time comes... just be patient... dont hurry things up...
2007-04-20 07:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by jade l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋