why can men never be honest and tell you when he feels the relationship is coming too an end
2007-04-20 00:00:18 · 21 answers · asked by zaakirahgangit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As amale, we can be honest. The problem is.. do we want to admit it to ourselves.
I have been through a few relationships and when they come to an end, I found myself denying it, and would not say anything.
There was a report I read on Yahoo news earlier tonight that said that men tend to mask their emotions after a breakup while women get it out. Men also have a rather hard time starting over,, many men do not want the relationship to end, and will ignore it in the vague hopes that it may just go back to how it was.
2007-04-20 00:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is usually a two way street. One could ask by the same token why are women never honest and tell you when she feels the relationship is coming to an end.
I guess you could compare it to the two of you are in a vehicle together going down the highway of life and suddenly the car misses a little bit. You just ignore it and proceed onward. In a while the car sort of sputters again and you still ignore it.
This keeps up with increasing frequency with neither of you admitting there is a problem and trying to do something about it. Then suddenly boom you are stranded and the car is not running any more and you both say why didn't she or he say something was wrong.
Can you honestly say you didn't feel the relationship was coming to an end also?
2007-04-20 00:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same!!
Some lie because if they tell the truth there might be a fight and men don't like conflict.
Others lie cause they don't want to be the one who has to end the relationship and want to spare your feelings.
And then there is those who lie just to prove a point to their friends.
** Men aren't the only ones that lie, some girl do too!!
2007-04-20 00:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they aren't sure of their feelings, but they react and do the sudden killoff anyway.
Don't assume all men are dishonest. I'm honest to a fault.
2007-04-20 00:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to get his last Woody for fun before he drops you...sadly they lie over and over again to seek out their own ways, but in the long run,he falls.
2007-04-20 00:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not just men. confrontation can be hard at times for both sexes. it's not easy to tell someone you don't want to be with them anymore, especially if you still care for that person in some degree because you don't want to hurt them. but then again some people are just heartless, but that's both sexes
2007-04-20 00:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he's given many signs and you haven't taken the hint. Not all men are like this thou.
2007-04-20 00:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afriad of the emotions u might have. It's easier to lie, lie, lie, until he can get the hell out of that room. Yes, it's cowardly. And mostly to do with him than with you.
2007-04-20 00:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want to make a good impression..which is wrong...there is mo real good reson to lie...it can end a relationship before it has a chance to get started
2007-04-20 00:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are jerks. plain and simple... they are also wimps... and sumtimes they dont actually want to hurt us. my ex dated me an entire extra week after realising he didnt like me anymore then he finally told me and i asked him how long he had know and he had said a little over a week and i asked him y he hadnt told me and it was because he didnt want to hurt me... and because he loved me as a friend but not more then a friend. sum guys do hav hearts... sum are just jerks. Good luck =]
2007-04-20 00:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋