save me from the nothing i hv become?

Question

hi ppl im so depressed these days as i started to face the fact tht im too weak i met a guy few wweeks ago on net n we met on reality few days ago he said tht he luvs me n i do luv him too but the matta is tht he doesnt care abt me as other guys do im pretty n all guys do care n call me much but i cant feel so with him, i spoke to him abt tht but all he said tht he has a busy life n now he doesnt even attempts to call me n alll he does is to call for few mins then say hey can u call me,i start to feel bad abt myself as i feel tht he lyin to me he let me down n i feel so sad help me wht to do plz

Answer 1

Um, realize that you have CHOICES and you teach people how to treat you.

Whatever is being done to you, you are choosing to let bother you.

Maybe you should busy yourself in something extracurricular - like a spelling class or something of the sort.

Answer 2

You only knew this guy for a few weeks through the net, then a few days ago you both finally met in person, he said he luvs you, okay let's stop it there for a bit. Don't take this personal, just giving options to the way he said I love you, did you ever think that maybe when he said it that he meant it as I love you as a friend then actually meaning in love.... remember friends come first then love follows. Maybe the reason he doesn't call you much, is because you confronted him on that. What you should do is drop him an email once inawhile not a lot don't want him to run away, just say something like in the following - Hi, been awhile since we last talked, just checking to see how my friend is doing hope not too busy, hope to hear from you, take care....by bringing the friend word back, may ease him up alittle, and who knows, love might just follow right after, don't rush it, let him come to you.

Answer 3

Well first of all , i think you have to learn English, so you can communicate better. And if you put out, the guy from the net got exactly what he wanted. He wasnot looking for a relationship, just a piece. Further more, i think that you think men should give you the time of day cause you are pretty and popular. Get over it, you wont get anyone that deeply cares with that kind of attitude

Answer 4

Guys don't make a woman. You can be as beautiful as you let yourself. Get rid of this on line guy. If he doesn't treat you like the princess you are find someone who will. Just set your standards, then find a guy that meets all of them. Don't settle for some guy that isn't worth the time it took for me to write this answer.

Answer 5

When you are pretty, you get a lot of insincere men hitting on you just to score. Just realize that you are worth more than that. For every jerk out there, there is a nice guy that is scared to try to meet you, because you are so attractive. When you see one of those nice guys, give them a break and ask them out. You will be surprised to find out how well they will treat you.

Answer 6

first of all he does not love you and you do not love him!
come on girl get a grip you hardly know this guy!
get off the internet and go out and meet real people.
have some self respect and some self confidence and let the losers you have wasted your time on go else where.

Answer 7

you have to let him go.. obviously this guy doesnt realize what he is giving up.. move on and im sure you will find a better, more caring guy to love you.. this guy wasnt for you.. just another experience to better you and laugh about later..

best wishes..

hope this helps..

Answer 8

Sadness is only in the mind. Believe in yourself and you will win any match.

Answer 9

Reality check he's just not that in to you. Move on

Answer 10

sorry to hear that.
It sounds like he is not really interested.
You should move on, but be more careful next time.