whats the best way to get over someone you really like??

Answer 1

im an ******* i cut them out of my life and simply ignore them. if its someone i liked yeah it hurts but it beats the whole i've changed crap gimme one more try

Answer 2

Think of all the bad ways they've treated you, all the ways they never appreciated you. Cry when you feel like crying & keep a diary of how you feel, till the day when you can chuck that diary in the bin & state "I have cried my last tear over that person" Its when you realise you are now free to find someone even better! Sometimes getting over a person is knowing they'll never have the opportunity of being with someone quite like you again....empower yourself!

Answer 3

HI there, Try to hate him ... just kidding . well its hard to do tht , though u try not to do things which can remind u of him . Make ur self busy . If you wana get over some one you like means he must have done something which hurts u . Think of the thing tht he did to u every day .. U will get rid of him . Good luck
Ps Foget and fogive is the best medicine sometimes ..try it

Answer 4

Exactly what 'big' said! Find someone else and focus your attention on them and/or you could think of all the negative things about the person you are trying to get over - be really picky and superficial.

Answer 5

try to get urself busy as much as u can by studying or working..and time is the only healer sweety..all the pain u r going through is really so normal but u can make it shorter if u want to dont give up to ur thoughts and try not to think of any memories whether good or bad it wont help...it wont bring him back..play any kind of sports too even if just running it really helped me alot..wish u luck...take care

Answer 6

look at some of the answers to my past questions that i asked, i asked the same question you did. theres some helpful advice i think but it really depends on the person. some ppl need to break off all contact some ppl need to go out with someone right away and others need time to mope, it depends on how serious you were with him and any potential future you have with him

Answer 7

A crush?

Well you have to make sure they don't really like you first.

Once you are sure, you have to stop thinking about them. This is the trick to lots of problems.

Just think about something else, or when you do think about them, tell your self not to and repeat something for a moment.

Of course it's easier said than done.

Answer 8

... dats a really hard one. i go owt wif boys and dey always dump me! so i cry like everyday lol. But da bst thing 4 me is 2 find another guys dats just like him or betta then him. There is alot of boys and i know soon u will get ova them. it will take some time but dats life rite? dnt expect to get ova guys in 1 day!

hpe it helped xx

Answer 9

use aversion therapy. That is to complex your mind to something you are uncomfortable with and relate it to that person repetitively to the point that that person becomes a symbol of that uncomfortable element. Whenever you do so you'll feel a certain urge of irritability towards that person. Not too much to hate them but not like them anymore.

Answer 10

Some time with the girls to cheer you up , go out and do things and dont sit in eating chocolate and listening to sad music.

Answer 11

Time. In the meantime, if you are angry, send him a card. "Thanks for the memories. To bad they weren't good ones!" Guys just love to see girls cry over them. They hate to think that they weren't all you really wanted.

Then get out there and show him what he will be missing.