...of her bringing male-friend along when she was supposed to be to visiting and spending time with me in the dating sense (was even told that she'd be introduced to parents).
Her line was: "her male-friend had never been to this area and wanted to come as a tourist for sightseeing..."
2007-04-18 18:02:18 · 20 answers · asked by stant_98 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Addt'l info:
This male-friend, I was told, is just her friend. He said his girlfriend of several years dumped him for a rich guy. So, I could believe this story whereas he's been burned before and does not want to get into a relationship, especially with her, not to give up this friendship. Still, I think, her decision to (even) offfer him to tag along is wrong, plainly, even stupid!
2007-04-18 18:57:05 · update #1
I made my decision. It's over! First, since we've only seen each other 3 times staring in February. I feel like, I do not want to continue this relatiomship with her because her decision is not what adult would make. (she is in her late 20's). And so I don't want to get more attached with her and have anything to do with someone who is immature.
2007-04-18 19:06:37 · update #2
she is pulling the wool over your eyes. dump her
2007-04-18 18:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by whitelily 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm also in a LD relationship. And if my gf ever brought a guy along I can't say we'd be doing much of anything after that. Unless she was scared, or had reason to be nervous or fear something, then apparently you two didn't talk long enough. But if you two really know eachother well and everything and have been together atleast over 6 months to a year, and possibly love each other.= Then that is just plain f'd up. I've been with my gf for over 3, and if she pulled that **** on me, I can't say we'd be doing much of anything together anymore. Sounds a little wierd man....be cautious.... How old are you two? How long have you two been dating online?
2007-04-19 01:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by mini trucker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off she isn't going to bring along some one she is interested in as more than friends to see her boyfriend...I think its strange she wouldn't want to be alone with you but then again maybe she was worried about traveling alone. Or maybe she just needed some one with her that she knew to make her feel more comfortable with the trip. Its hard to go some place that is not familiar and meet parents and not have a friend of your own to help you with it. I would say wait and see what she does on the next trip maybe she will be more comfortable and come alone.
2007-04-19 01:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by SB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see what comez along and what ever happens...HAPPENS
but y dnt u drop some hints 2 her and try 2 talk 2 this 'male friend'
u have three options !
1. u can ask your girl about it
2. u can talk 2 da guy about it
3. just trust your girl dat shes not cheating on u but dont follow her or anything dats just low ae.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-19 01:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was meeting you for the first time maybe she brought him along in case you were a jerk ..If you have seen eachother before I would wonder why she brought him .. and what else does she do with him ...
I think i would forget that relationship .. or bring a girl with you to see her and see what she says about that
2007-04-19 01:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you may not want 2 hear this. In long distance relationships people either grow closer or break-up. Leave her alone now before you become heart broken. even if you already are just leave it alone. I'm pretty sure there's some great women in your on area.
2007-04-19 01:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by MissR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whitelil… is right. Dump her she is cheating. And even if she isnt its not very nice to bring a male friend along when your havent seen your boyfriend in ages.
2007-04-19 01:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Heath rock god 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at the way he looks, because people tend to date people who are around the same level of attractiveness. If he is about as good looking as her, she's playing you.
2007-04-19 01:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by The JZA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn... all i can say is shes either just trying to make you jealous..even if there is no reason for you to be jealous some girls will do things for the attention... but if you guys have a long distance relationship thats soo rude... if youre not comfy with that you need to let her know before it drives you nuts
2007-04-19 01:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by ellennnn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that is weird--- but if you guys have not been dating long or met online it might have been like a body guard in disguise---you know how every1 is afraid to meet people online(and they should be i thnk thats creepy) i wouldnt want to go to some place far away by myself to be with someone i didnt know very well---i would take a body guard too---maybe thats it idk
2007-04-19 01:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by jujubeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how she acts around him you should stay with her or not. my brother was in a long distance relationship for around three years and then ended up geting married to her, so see how she acts around him then decide.
2007-04-19 01:06:54 · answer #11 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋