Ok so my boyfriend and I were tickling eachother and somehow it led to being more rough. I will admit I can get rough easily but still have a playful smile on my face but when my boyfriend got rough tonight he had this "crazed" laugh. He only does this laugh when he knows it is related to somthing evil. I know this sounds weird but it is NOT his normal laugh. Well anyways we stopped playing around because I felt the tears coming on so I left the room to go to the bathroom. When I came back in he saw my face and came over to hold me, comfort me. Well I was still weirded out because how he was playing with me just minutes before and told him to not touch me. After I said that he was silent for a long time and he never said anything to me until I asked if he was going to say anything at all. All he said was "you told me not to touch you". I feel horrible now because he feels horrible that I told him that. I only felt that way at that minute. What should I do. Srs answers only.
2007-04-18 17:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by MoMoChan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing asking him to stop and he also did the right thing by listening and stopping. Wait til you feel your ready and just talk it through with him
2007-04-18 17:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO...if he's 'playing' so much that you have to have bruises...it's not playing...you need to tell him that your at that point of break up...if he continues to be so rough then you can't stay with him...and if he says whatever then CUT HIS *** but if he's like baby im sorry I didn't realize you were serious...i promise ill try to do better...than give him a chance... but if says this dont say well i been tellin you....he may start to feel like hes being attacked...oh and also if he tells you this and he continues to do this then try to tell him babe ur hurting me again...if he acts like he dont care CUT HIS *** Well i hope this helps...good luck
2016-05-18 21:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it sounds like he is sorry the play got out of hand. Forgive him and remember next time when you play rough someone usually gets hurt.
2007-04-18 17:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by kaisergirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go get a crucifix and some holy water and pretend to do an exorcism on him-see what kind of reaction he has to this. You think he is slightly possessed maybe? Could be-he has a hint of evil lingering it sounds like-esp. if he has that evil laugh going-interesting.....
2007-04-18 17:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him what you feel and what made you upset .
Guys can't read our minds, they just need to understand the female thoughts and emotions sometimes.
2007-04-18 17:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Dont worry girl, it aint your fault,......i bet he understands his mistake, he might have even thought of putting a question in Yahoo answers like you did. dont worry, if you feel like apologizing then do it...but this will fade away quietly....dont worry.
2007-04-18 17:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by A.Sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happened to going out, having conversations and enjoying each others company in a healthy way? I think you and your boyfriend should stop rough housing. YOU'RE NOT TWO LITTLE BOYS. YOU'RE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND. I think that the both of you should seriously change the nature of your relationship immediately.
2007-04-18 17:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
explain to him that the playing gets too rough sometimes,and it hurts.. dont be afraid to tell people how you feel and what you want and dont want to do.
2007-04-18 17:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I won't read all that but from what I did read, I can tell you that anyone who cares about you would never, ever hurt you in anyway. PERIOD.
2007-04-18 17:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but this guy is a loser. I've known guys like this and they only want to pleasure themselfe.Please dump him if you don't want to be a slave.
2007-04-18 17:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by gertie_birdy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋