what should I do?

Question

we had a good first date and a nice second date too, but he called me 3 days after the second date. I didnt pick up o call back cuz personally i feel it was too late to call....what should i do???

Answer 1

It seems to me, that there is is a problem with your measurement of time. Excuse me for my English, it is not my native language. Even so, I felt you are a little too severe with the situation. For the ones who are in the other walk of the street, it don't look so scary.
Take your time, know yourself, and try to answer the ultimate question a human being can make to himself: ¿What do I want?, What do I really want after all this years of searching?. Thou it can be hard, responding this question is the only way of having a chance of getting your own an unique true. The only that can make you free of mental torture, of self deception and of wasting your youth, your capacities and your future in a hopeless way . Hopping you may consider this as a valid answers and that you will excuse my English, sends you my regards and best wishes, R.P.

PD: You can not take life in and obsessive way. In life, love is what you can call the ultimate frontier. Don't waste it, if you cant handle, let it go until you are in a better mood for it. Hoping you would find your way, salutes you, R.P..

Answer 2

I don't think 3 days is too late to call. I mean after all, if he called you the day after your date, wouldn't the tiniest part of you think that was a little bit desperate? You can't really win in these situations. I think the best thing to do is just look at it like this, if you like him and you enjoy going out with him then you should. It's as simple as that.

Answer 3

Call him back silly he probably wanted to give some space after the second date. Besides even if it was four or five days doesn´t matter if you like him call him. If there is a problem then you´ll soon find out and then move on.

Answer 4

You might decide how you are going to react with yourself. I mean, if you are honest with yourself, do you tell yourself you like the guy or don't like the guy. If you like him, talk to him. If you don't like him, don't even worry about it. Treat him the way you treat yourself. Do you worry about whether you are too late, whether there are extenuating circumstances? Do you know why he called when he did? Obviously the fact he called means he's got some interest in you. Do you have any interest in him? Apparently not since you won't accept his calls. If you really are interested in continuing the relationship, consider whether you want to do so on the terms you are now establishing...to refuse calls because they don't meet your time schedule. Interesting.

Answer 5

After a second date you enjoyed you felt that 3 days was too long? Let me repeat... a second date YOU ENJOYED?

There is your answer...

Answer 6

i think you need to call him because he could ahve been busy with something you never know....guys dont have the same mind set as girls do three days is not a long time. also by not picking up or calling him back you are telling him you are not interested in him. so my advice is to call him back! you never know how it could end....good luck!

Answer 7

its never to late to call. if u felt like u liked him and he had an interest in u call him or answer the phone. u may not get another chance. act on the chances u get.

Answer 8

If you have his number, call him.

If you don't have his number, learn your lesson--3 days is not too late to call--3 weeks defenitely too late.

Answer 9

If you like him, call him and make arrangements to hang out again. If you don't, call him and let him know your true feelings. Things are usually work better if your upfront and honest.

Answer 10

If you LIKE him, call him back!! He may have been too busy to call, or was afraid he'd seem like he was coming on too strong if he called sooner... Call him back if you like him! :)