i am basically going out with this guy but he is really shy...i want to kiss him but he is alot taller than me. how do i kiss him first or how do i let him know that its ok to kiss me? all ideas would be appreciated
2007-04-18 15:56:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he is a lot taller, then ask him to bend over, you have something to whisper in his ear, then kiss him on the cheek.
2007-04-18 16:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy was very shy when i first met him and i knew i had to make the first move. I am a little over 5' and he is 6'. So i had to make sure to do it when we were both sitting down so i could reach him properly. The day i decided to got for it we were both at a friend's house on the couch, so i had the perfect opportunity. And I sure am glad i did it. We're going on 4 years now and are engaged!
2007-04-18 23:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by katskradle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's shy you could wait till you're sitting down. I'm not sure of how old you are or if you're allowed to have guys over. But maybe if you guys hung out at one of your homes and watched a movie or something you could sit close together and snuggle, so he'd get the hint.
If he still doesn't get the hint you could just go for it yourself. I had to with one of my first boyfriends. He was shy so when we were hanging out at his house i just kissed him. After that he got more comfortable with it.
The reason i suggest one of your houses is just for comfort level, but it doesn't have to be there. You could do what my first kiss did... we went out one night and after he walked me home when i turned to walk inside he grabbed my hand, pulled me close to him and kissed me.
It was all very romantic.
Soo Good Luck!
2007-04-18 23:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am a guy with the same problem ok well alot of boys prefer that the girls make the first move so you just wait till he is sitting down in a movie ect and when he hugs you kiss him i hope this helps you .
2007-04-18 23:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by bojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only going out with him because he is shy,you really don't have much to lose, so lay it on him ,...when he is sitting down, just stand in front of him and let him have it,i'm sure that will take away some of his shyness. best kisses..i mean wishes
2007-04-18 23:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just got my first kiss of this girl i really liked and she initiated it. We were both sitting down at night after heaps of chatting when she said "r u a good kisser" that was my signal and i didnt hesitate i replied "theres only 1 way to find out" and went 4 it, its been downhill ever since:)
2007-04-18 23:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Pauly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come here (a finger wave ought to do the trick), you've got a secret to tell him. After he bends over to listen, all you have to do is kiss him & say that's the secret -- and it's ok to kiss you back too! Good luck!
2007-04-18 23:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling, I'm 12" shorter than my fiance. My best suggestion, go for a walk in the park and sit on a bench and take advantage of being able to leverage your height.
2007-04-18 23:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by p51mustang1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him at the movies. You'll be sitting down so the hight issue won't come into play. Do not ask him. I'm guessing you guys are young and it will unquestionably embarrass him.
2007-04-18 23:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry a stepladder, then when the moments right plonk it on the ground, take a few steps up and goooo for it LOL. Joking aside you can probally still reach him if you put your arms around his neck, If you cant he is probally too old for you and you need to re-evaluate dating. (either that or get some stilts)
2007-04-18 23:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋